Recovery Fundamentals Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Problem with Forgiveness Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How to Survive Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Power of Small Groups 1250 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Do We Talk About the Affair or Marriage? 7/12/2016 Q&A Which Should We Work on First? 7/12/2016 Q&A What Happens When Someone Dives in and Processes the Costs? 7/12/2016 Q&A How Can I Assure My Betrayed Mate of My Good Intentions? 7/01/2016 Q&A What is Expected After Grieving the Loss of Love? 7/01/2016 Q&A What is Realistic in Terms of Time Spent Talking About it? 7/01/2016 Q&A Isn't this Behavior a Red Flag for the Future? 6/28/2016 Q&A How do we Face this Logistical Challenge? 6/28/2016 Q&A Is it Healthy for Us to Have Phone Sex? 6/28/2016 Q&A How do We Talk About it Now? 6/28/2016 Q&A Will I Ever Again be Truly Comfortable? 6/28/2016 Q&A How do We Balance Recovery and a Newborn? 6/28/2016 Q&A Leave? Stay? Conflicted! 6/21/2016 Q&A Am I Owed Financial Restitution? 6/21/2016 Q&A Infidelity or Betrayal? 6/21/2016 Q&A Can There be Repentance While in an Affair? 6/21/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Feel Like Plan B? 6/14/2016 Q&A Should the Unfaithful's Spouse's Story Make Sense? 6/14/2016 Q&A Is Counseling Necessary? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Can I Love Him Again? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Can I Communicate His Lack of Consistency? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Do You Begin Recovery? 6/06/2016 Q&A How do I Convince My Mate That I'm Telling the Truth? 6/06/2016 Q&A How do We Handle the First Weeks After Discovery? 6/06/2016 Q&A Is Waiting for Remorse a Fool's Errand? 6/03/2016 Q&A In What Ways Can I Transform the Pain? 6/03/2016 Q&A What Direction Should I Take? 6/03/2016 Q&A Should I Expose Them? 6/03/2016 Q&A Why Doesn't He Talk About Previous Relationships? 6/03/2016 Michael & Melinda's Mentor Video 6/01/2016 Q&A Why Should the Betrayed Stay? 5/26/2016 Q&A Am I Avoiding the Pain? 5/26/2016 Q&A What Can I Do About My Friends? 5/26/2016 Q&A Can an Addict Love Unconditionally? 5/26/2016 Q&A Thought Stopping vs. Head in the Sand. Help! 5/10/2016 Q&A How Can I Feel Her Love When She Does This? 5/10/2016 Q&A How Can We Overcome Our Tendency to Withdraw? 5/10/2016 Is My Mate Safe? 5/10/2016 Q&A Will This Method of Disclosure Cause me More Harm? 5/03/2016 Q&A How Can I Get My Spouse to Show Initiative? 5/03/2016 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Betrayed Men? 5/03/2016 Q&A What do you Suggest for Counseling and EMS Online? 5/03/2016 Q&A (HH) Is There Private Mentoring at AR? 4/28/2016 Q&A What Else Can We do For Support? 4/26/2016 Q&A Can You Help With the Unfaithful's Lack of Empathy? 4/13/2016 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 4/13/2016 Q&A (HH) Any Advice for Our Disclosure Challenges? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Should I 'Know' Who She is? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) How do You Know if Your Unfaithful Spouse is Taking Responsibility or Still Lying? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Can You Recommend a Conflict Resolution Plan for Us? 3/24/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…171819202122232425next ›last »
