Recovery Fundamentals Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Power of Small Groups Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 1243 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is it Healthy for Us to Have Phone Sex? 6/28/2016 Q&A How do We Talk About it Now? 6/28/2016 Q&A Will I Ever Again be Truly Comfortable? 6/28/2016 Q&A How do We Balance Recovery and a Newborn? 6/28/2016 Q&A Leave? Stay? Conflicted! 6/21/2016 Q&A Am I Owed Financial Restitution? 6/21/2016 Q&A Infidelity or Betrayal? 6/21/2016 Q&A Can There be Repentance While in an Affair? 6/21/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Feel Like Plan B? 6/14/2016 Q&A Should the Unfaithful's Spouse's Story Make Sense? 6/14/2016 Q&A Is Counseling Necessary? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Can I Love Him Again? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Can I Communicate His Lack of Consistency? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Do You Begin Recovery? 6/06/2016 Q&A How do I Convince My Mate That I'm Telling the Truth? 6/06/2016 Q&A How do We Handle the First Weeks After Discovery? 6/06/2016 Q&A Is Waiting for Remorse a Fool's Errand? 6/03/2016 Q&A In What Ways Can I Transform the Pain? 6/03/2016 Q&A What Direction Should I Take? 6/03/2016 Q&A Should I Expose Them? 6/03/2016 Q&A Why Doesn't He Talk About Previous Relationships? 6/03/2016 Michael & Melinda's Mentor Video 6/01/2016 Q&A Why Should the Betrayed Stay? 5/26/2016 Q&A Am I Avoiding the Pain? 5/26/2016 Q&A What Can I Do About My Friends? 5/26/2016 Q&A Can an Addict Love Unconditionally? 5/26/2016 Q&A Thought Stopping vs. Head in the Sand. Help! 5/10/2016 Q&A How Can I Feel Her Love When She Does This? 5/10/2016 Q&A How Can We Overcome Our Tendency to Withdraw? 5/10/2016 Is My Mate Safe? 5/10/2016 Q&A Will This Method of Disclosure Cause me More Harm? 5/03/2016 Q&A How Can I Get My Spouse to Show Initiative? 5/03/2016 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Betrayed Men? 5/03/2016 Q&A What do you Suggest for Counseling and EMS Online? 5/03/2016 Q&A (HH) Is There Private Mentoring at AR? 4/28/2016 Q&A What Else Can We do For Support? 4/26/2016 Q&A Can You Help With the Unfaithful's Lack of Empathy? 4/13/2016 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 4/13/2016 Q&A (HH) Any Advice for Our Disclosure Challenges? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Should I 'Know' Who She is? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) How do You Know if Your Unfaithful Spouse is Taking Responsibility or Still Lying? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Can You Recommend a Conflict Resolution Plan for Us? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Leslie, Can You Explain? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) When Should We Start Couples Counseling? 3/24/2016 Q&A How Do I Overcome Not Putting My Wife First? 3/21/2016 Q&A How Can We Restore Emotional Equality? 3/21/2016 Q&A How Can They Say They Won't do it Again if They Don't Even Know the Why? 3/15/2016 Q&A What Are Your Suggestions for a Recovering Sex and Love Addict? 3/15/2016 Q&A What Recovery Work Should the Unfaithful Do? 3/08/2016 Q&A Am I Reaping What I Sowed Many Years Ago? 3/01/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…171819202122232425next ›last »