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Q&A When an Intrusive Thought Occurs, How Do I Know the Difference between Suppressing and Ignoring That Thought versus Not Giving It Any Airtime, Capturing It, and Redirecting My Thinking to Something Else? |
2/02/2022 |
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Q&A How Can I Get To a More Balanced Psyche? |
2/02/2022 |
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Announcing NEW Infidelity Video Blog: Songs for the Soul |
1/26/2022 |
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Q&A What Do We Do When We Both Cheated, If My Betrayal Was ‘Worse’ than His? |
1/18/2022 |
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Q&A What Do I Do When the Betrayed Spouse Shuts Me Out and Doesn’t Want to Talk about His Pain, Unless Forced? |
1/18/2022 |
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Q&A Why Is He Okay as Long as I Don’t Talk about It? How Can We Get past This If He’s Unwilling to Answer Questions? |
12/17/2021 |
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Q&A At What Point Is It Unhealthy to Be Avoiding Events Because the Affair Partner May Go or Avoiding Places Because They Once Went There Together? |
12/17/2021 |
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Social Shame: Four Ways to Stay In It |
12/13/2021 |
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Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough |
12/08/2021 |
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Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? |
12/01/2021 |
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Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it |
11/24/2021 |
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Q&A What Can I Ask My Spouse to Do That Also Requires the Same Amount of Effort in the Process of Recovery? |
11/19/2021 |
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The Use and Abuse of the Polygraph |
11/10/2021 |
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Q&A What Practical Steps Can I Take To Help Me Overcome the Overwhelming Moments in Recovery? |
10/07/2021 |
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Q&A Did I Do the Right Thing by Sharing My Trigger and How Do I Handle This Situation in the Future? |
10/07/2021 |
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Q&A How Can We Make Progress and How Can I Trust Him? |
10/07/2021 |
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Q&A Can You Provide Clarification on Not Asking Relational Comparison Questions? |
9/08/2021 |
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Q&A Where Do I Go After EMS Online? |
8/17/2021 |
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Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Wife about the Affair? |
8/17/2021 |
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Q&A Do You Recommend Joining Harboring Hope or Hope For Healing after Completing EMS Online? |
7/22/2021 |
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Q&A Can You Explain Personal Responsibility in Regards to Infidelity? |
7/22/2021 |
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Q&A Can You Help Me Put a Little Light On Where I Am Stuck? |
7/22/2021 |
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Q&A How Do I Deal With His Advice without Feeling He Is Criticizing Me? |
7/13/2021 |
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Q&A How Do I Deal With the Physical Distance between Me and My Husband during Recovery? |
7/13/2021 |
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Q&A How Do I Reconcile with the Affair Partner Who Is My Sister? |
7/08/2021 |
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Q&A Is It Okay to Ask to the the 40 Cost Assignment from EMS Weekend Again? |
7/08/2021 |
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Q&A I'm Confused about the Cycle of Grace and Performance Management. Can You Please Explain? |
6/17/2021 |
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Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Not Going All-In on Recovery? |
6/17/2021 |
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Q&A What Are the Effective Ways of Grieving and How Do I Know Which One Is Best For Me? |
6/17/2021 |
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Q&A Are We Trying to Recover Too Fast? |
6/17/2021 |
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Q&A How Can I Help Him Heal and Yet Remain Open and Honest with Him about the Facts and Not What His Feelings about the Facts Are? |
6/17/2021 |
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Q&A How Do We Continue to Try and Get along without Ever Speaking about the Affair or Any Problems? |
6/17/2021 |
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Q&A How Do I Navigate This Situation? |
6/16/2021 |
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Q&A Am I Hurting Us More by Not Letting Him Live at Home? |
6/16/2021 |
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Q&A What Resources Can I Give My Family for Supporting Me through This Time and Setting Healthy Boundaries? |
6/16/2021 |
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Q&A What Is the Best Response for My Husband? |
6/16/2021 |
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Q&A How Do I Help Him Understand That I Need to Know about All His Emotional Affairs? |
6/16/2021 |
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Q&A Is There Anything I Can Be Doing to Leave an Opening for a Different Path? |
6/16/2021 |
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Q&A How Do I Create a Safe Boundary for Myself While Showing Him Grace and Not Reject His Desire to Open up to Me and Reconnect? |
6/16/2021 |
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Q&A How Do I as the Betrayed Quit Hitting the Wrong Side of His Ambivalence? |
6/16/2021 |
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Q&A Are There Any Tips on How to Handle Someone Who Is Not Displaying Remorse, Is Full Of Anger and Pain, And Deeply Depressed? |
6/16/2021 |
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Q&A Did He Only Quit Because He Got Caught? |
6/16/2021 |
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Q&A Are My Good Acts Just More Manipulation? |
6/03/2021 |
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Q&A How Do I Handle My Complicated Family Situation? |
6/03/2021 |
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Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse’s Defensiveness? |
6/03/2021 |
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Q&A Is There Correlation to Infidelity and Attachment Styles? |
5/25/2021 |
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Q&A Do We Try to Get Ahead of Public Backlash? |
5/25/2021 |
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Q&A How Do I Love Her through Her Controlling Issues While Still Maintaining My Sanity? |
5/25/2021 |
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Q&A Should I Receive a Disclosure Letter from My Spouses Work in Hope for Healing? |
5/25/2021 |
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Hope Rising Conference 2021 Announcement: Words of Wisdom from Keynote Speaker Shauna Shanks |
5/19/2021 |
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