All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How to Survive Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 4970 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can Regularly Consuming the Content of the Betrayed Forums Be Counter-Productive to Healing? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Our Situation? 7/11/2018 Q&A Can I Change My Unfaithful Mates Perception of the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018 Q&A What Do I Do with Triggering Pictures? 7/11/2018 Q&A Do You Have Any Recommendations for Communicating My Needs? 7/11/2018 Q&A Are There Differences in Love of Spouse in Marriage and Love of the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018 Q&A Can My Husband Heal without Continued Expert Help? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Much Information Should I Have about the Affair? 7/11/2018 Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable by Wanting My Mate to View the Affair Partner in a Different Light? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Thinking? 7/11/2018 Mickey and Stephanie's Mentor Video 7/06/2018 Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me? 7/06/2018 Q&A Why Is My Wife Still Friends with People That Helped Hide Her Affair? 7/06/2018 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Taking Recovery Seriously? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband Who Is Ambivalent and Distant? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Can We Restore Our Sexual Intimacy? 7/06/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Us in Our Communication? 7/06/2018 Q&A Do You Think It Is Important to Confess Infidelity to Parents? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Can We Get out of This Destructive Cycle? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Show My Spouse That I Am Truly Trying to Regain Their Trust? 7/06/2018 Q&A Is This Another Form of Justification and Blame Shifting? 6/27/2018 Q&A How Can I Let Go of My Resentment? 6/27/2018 Q&A Could a Polygraph Help Us Move Forward in Our Healing? 6/27/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Mate to Come out of Limerence? 6/27/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for the Betrayed Moving through Discovery? 6/27/2018 Q&A Should How Do You Restore a Loveless Marriage after an Affair? 6/27/2018 Q&A Should I Consider Separation? 6/27/2018 Q&A I'm Beginning to Lose Hope, Should I Stay or Should I Go? 6/27/2018 Q&A Do You Really Believe God Created Marriage to Make Us Miserable? 6/27/2018 Monotonous Monogamy and the Emotional Affair 6/27/2018 The Infidelity Divorce Syndrome: Divorce Recovery After Infidelity 6/21/2018 Q&A Should We Separate for a While? 6/15/2018 Q&A Can You Give Us Guidance on Reaching Full Disclosure? 6/15/2018 Q&A Will the Respect I Had for My Spouse Come Back over Time? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Can We Protect Our Safety Protocol While Traveling? 6/15/2018 Q&A Do I Need to Get a Divorce? 6/15/2018 Q&A Are There Boundaries That Need to Be Followed as an Accountability Partner? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That I Truly Have All the Information? 6/15/2018 Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Wife's Feelings about Saving the Marriage? 6/08/2018 Q&A Do You Have Additional Resources for Overcoming Gaslighting? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Unfaithful Wife Figure out Why She Had the Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Is the Difference between the ‘Right Person’ and the ‘Right Fit’? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Interact with the Family Members That Helped Hide My Mates Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Should Our Next Step Be? 6/08/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018 Q&A Why Does My Husband Act like I’m the One with the Problem? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husbands Relapse? 6/07/2018 Q&A What's the Difference between Feeling Remorse for Causing Me Pain and Having Remorse for Being with the Other Person? 6/07/2018 Q&A What Does Forgiveness Look like after Multiple Relapses? 6/07/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…444546474849505152…next ›last »