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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Is a Healthy Boundary for Alcohol in This Situation?	5/07/2020
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about Our Disclosure Process?	5/07/2020
	Q&A How Do We Heal without Full Disclosure?	5/07/2020
	Q&A What If You Feel the Wayward Spouse Is Not Telling the Whole Truth during the Telling of Their Story?	5/07/2020
	Q&A Is Ringing in the Ears Normal?	5/07/2020
	Q&A Should the Lack of Safety Be a Deal Breaker for Recovery?	5/07/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When My Wife Drinks and Get so Angry?	5/07/2020
	Q&A How Can I, as the Wayward Spouse, Help My Wife to Come to Accept Her Reality?	4/30/2020
	Q&A What Is the Process for Dealing with Raw Spots?	4/30/2020
	Q&A How Do I Salvage a Relationship with Two Best Friends Who Are Distancing Themselves from Me?	4/30/2020
	Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Managing My Emotions during Recovery?	4/30/2020
	Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Husband from Continuously Shutting Down?	4/30/2020
	Q&A Where Is the Empathy for Me?	4/30/2020
	Q&A Do I Stay Separated or Divorce If This Never Changes?	4/28/2020
	Q&A I Am Trying to Be Safe for My Wife, but How Can I Feel Safe from Her?	4/28/2020
	Q&A Will I Ever Feel Special Again?	4/28/2020
	Q&A What Are Your Suggestions When It’s Hard to Trust?	4/28/2020
	Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Comfortable Being in a Place with My Husband without Searching for Women Whom I Know Fit His Sexual Criteria?	4/28/2020
	Q&A Will This Ever Get Better and How Can I Help Myself to Recover This Part of My Marriage?	4/28/2020
	Q&A How Do I Make the Hard Decision to Stay or Move on after All These Years?	4/28/2020
	Q&A Why Am I Having an Emotional Reaction When My Spouse Shows Interest in Things Besides Recovery?	4/28/2020
	Q&A Is It Time for Me to Find My Own Counselor and Begin to Exit This Relationship?	4/28/2020
	Q&A How Can I Work to Create an Environment Where My Wayward Spouse Feels Safe?	4/28/2020
	Q&A How Do I Maintain Recovery During Times of Crisis?	4/28/2020
	Q&A Is It Really Possible for a Man to Fall Back in Love with His Wife If He Was in Love with His Affair Partner?	4/28/2020
	Q&A Can I Trust This as Real Change or Just Further Manipulation?	4/28/2020
	Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand My Concerns?	4/28/2020
	Q&A Will We Ever Be Able to Restore Trust in Our Marriage?	4/28/2020
	Q&A How Do I Take a Step Forward and Where Do I Go from Here?	4/16/2020
	Q&A What Strategies Can I Use for Patience during Recovery?	4/16/2020
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Helping Us Break Contact with the Affair Partner?	4/16/2020
	Q&A Are There Questions That Would Make the Empathy Exercise More Productive and Healing?	4/16/2020
	Q&A Is It Possible for Something like This to Not Change Us?	4/16/2020
	Q&A Can I Truly Be the Changed Person I Feel I Am Now?	4/16/2020
	Q&A Should We Continue EMS Online If My Spouse Continues to Blame Me for the Affair?	4/09/2020
	Q&A How Do I Know Limerance Isn’t What My Husband Feels for Me?	4/09/2020
	Q&A Why Do Wayward Spouses Want to Stay in the Marriage?	4/09/2020
	Q&A What Was My Husband Telling Himself When He Told Me All These Lies?	4/09/2020
	Q&A How Can We Get Our Needs Met during Recovery?	4/02/2020
	Q&A How Do You Deal with Someone Who Lacks Self Awareness?	4/02/2020
	Q&A Is It Time for a Separation?	4/02/2020
	Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery?	4/02/2020
	Hope During the COVID-19 Crisis ...and our favorite memes	3/30/2020
	Q&A Has Sexual Imprinting Led to My Affair?	3/26/2020
	Q&A How Do We Stop This Exhausting, Vicious, Cycle?	3/26/2020
	Q&A How Can We Reclaim This Intimate Part of Our Sexuality?	3/26/2020
	Q&A Can You Help Me Reframe My Thinking?	3/19/2020
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward When My Spouse Is Still in Contact with the Affair Partner?	3/19/2020
	Q&A Is My Husband Normal, Sick, or Was He Temporarily Insane?	3/19/2020
	Q&A What Can I Do to Support My Mate in Breaking Contact with the Affair Partner?	3/19/2020