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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is It Better to Wait for Healing in the Marriage to Resume Intimacy?	6/11/2019
	Q&A Will It Ever Be Possible to Reconcile?	6/11/2019
	Q&A Is It Time to Call It Quits?	6/05/2019
	Q&A How Can I Communicate That I'm Choosing My Mate?	6/05/2019
	Q&A What Does True Healing Look Like?	6/05/2019
	Q&A How Can I Overcome the Fear That This Will Happen Again?	6/05/2019
	Q&A How Do We Heal from the Trauma That Surrounded the Affair?	6/05/2019
	Q&A Is My Behavior a Reason for My Mate to Not Follow Boundaries?	6/05/2019
	Q&A Should We Send a Cease and Desist to the Affair Partner?	6/05/2019
	Q&A How Do I Handle the Injustice of It All?	6/05/2019
	Q&A How Can We Better Handle Triggers during Sex?	6/05/2019
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Grief for the Affair Partner?	6/05/2019
	Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse Overcome Shame and Humiliation?	5/21/2019
	Q&A How Can We Stay Safe While Traveling?	5/21/2019
	Q&A Why Did My Mate Take So Many Photos of the Affair Partners?	5/21/2019
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What Happened?	5/21/2019
	Q&A How Can We Find Others Like Us to Help Us Heal?	5/21/2019
	Q&A What Do You Mean By ‘My Mate Is Not My Problem My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me’?	5/21/2019
	Q&A Is There a Difference between Just Getting over What Happened and Forgiveness?	5/21/2019
	Q&A Should We Take EMS Online Even If There Is Still Contact with the Affair Partner?	5/21/2019
	Q&A How Can We Overcome Our Setbacks?	5/21/2019
	Q&A What Would Be Considered a Relapse or Relapse Behavior?	5/21/2019
	Q&A If I Don't Want to Save the Marriage, Does That Mean I Don't Have Remorse?	5/21/2019
	Q&A How Do I Shift the Focus off My Mistakes and onto Healing?	5/21/2019
	Q&A How Do I Start a New Life?	5/21/2019
	Q&A Why Do I Feel the One Place I Can Be Myself and Be Safe Is a Place I Now Get Attacked?	5/21/2019
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward If My Mate Won't Admit What Happened?	5/15/2019
	Q&A Can You Expand on Your Explanation of Arousal Templates?	5/15/2019
	Q&A What Is the Difference between Constricting Your Emotions and Controlling Your Emotions?	5/15/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible to Be in a Limerent Relationship with a Friend?	5/15/2019
	Q&A What Do I Do with My Confusion and Anger?	5/15/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Shelf the Marriage Issues Prior to Infidelity until after We Heal?	5/15/2019
	Q&A Should Safety Override Pursuing the Path We Think Might Be Best for Us?	5/15/2019
	Q&A What Should I Do to Treat My PTSD?	5/15/2019
	Q&A Does Our Sexual Maturity Stop Growing after Our First Sexual Experience?	5/15/2019
	Q&A How Do I Overcome the Thoughts of Comparison?	5/15/2019
	Q&A Should I Move on or Be Patient with My Mate?	5/15/2019
	Q&A Is There Hope for a Feeling of Oneness Again?	5/15/2019
	Andy and Laura Mentor Video	5/14/2019
	Q&A Can You Recommend a Timeline?	5/08/2019
	Q&A What Should I Do?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Am I Hurting My Mates Recovery Process?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Advice for My Situation?	5/08/2019
	Q&A How Do I Properly Grieve the Losses?	5/08/2019
	Q&A How Can I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Is My Unfaithful Husband Now Addicted to God?	5/08/2019
	Q&A How Do I Know What to Believe?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Is It Typical to Still Be in So Much Anguish This Far down the Road?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Are Polygraph's Valid and Should My Husband Take One?	5/08/2019
	Q&A How Do I Manage Our Sexual Intimacy?	5/08/2019