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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Happens When the Wayward Refuses to Get Help?	11/28/2018
	Q&A Why Isn’t My Mate Showing Empathy?	11/28/2018
	Q&A Should We Participate in EMS Online before Seeking Individual Healing?	11/26/2018
	Q&A Is Our Marriage Doomed Because My Mate Is Unwilling to Make Amends?	11/26/2018
	Q&A How Do I Interpret and Handle My Unfaithful Husband’s Lack of Pursuit and Desire for Me?	11/26/2018
	Q&A Should I Suggest Addiction Counseling to My Mate?	11/26/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Affairs?	11/26/2018
	Q&A How Should I Handle My Husband's Ambivalence?	11/26/2018
	Q&A How Are Fear and Desire Related?	11/26/2018
	Q&A How Do I Find a Credible Polygrapher in My Area and Should I Use One?	11/26/2018
	Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses Full Disclosure?	11/26/2018
	Q&A Am I Wrong for Feeling Exhausted?	11/26/2018
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Relapse?	11/26/2018
	Q&A How Do I Reconnect to the Good Memories?	11/26/2018
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Separation?	11/26/2018
	Q&A Are There Certain Personalities That Cannot Heal from Infidelity?	11/21/2018
	Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate Not to Contact Her Affair Partner for Closure?	11/21/2018
	Q&A How Do I Confront My Mate about Their Porn Use?	11/21/2018
	Q&A What Role Does an Alcoholic as the Betrayed Play in Recovery?	11/21/2018
	Q&A Why Can't I Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner?	11/21/2018
	Q&A How Do I Get My Feelings Back for My Husband?	11/21/2018
	Q&A Why Is My Mate Holding Back Details?	11/21/2018
	Q&A Will Affair Recovery Be Enough for Me to Heal?	11/21/2018
	Q&A How Can We Create Safety When We Are Apart?	11/21/2018
	Q&A Why Won't My Mate Agree to Renew Our Vows?	11/21/2018
	Q&A Should We Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse?	11/21/2018
	Q&A How Do I Find Empathy?	11/21/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with the Tension of Seemingly Opposite Suggestions for the Recovery Process?	11/07/2018
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Understand What They've Done?	11/07/2018
	Q&A Can You Help Me Wade through My Mate's Ambivalence?	11/07/2018
	Q&A How Do I Break My Cycle of Lying?	11/07/2018
	Q&A How Do We Navigate Forgiveness with outside Parties?	11/07/2018
	Q&A How Do I Process My Feelings for the Affair Partner?	11/07/2018
	Q&A Am I Shaming My Husband When I Bring up His past Behaviors?	11/07/2018
	Q&A At What Point Do I Stop Trying?	11/07/2018
	Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Ever Fade?	11/07/2018
	Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story?	11/07/2018
	Q&A How Do Sex Addicts Develop a Healthy Sexual Relationship with Their Mate?	11/07/2018
	Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set?	11/01/2018
	Q&A What Is the Best Way to Deal with Ambivalence?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Can We Ever Have Trust Again after All This?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Can I Help My Children Cope?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Can We Restore Our Sexual Intimacy?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Do I Erase the Intrusive Thoughts?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Is This a Normal Reaction of Shame and Guilt?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Do I Live with a Spouse That Is Grieving the Affair Partner?	11/01/2018
	Q&A What Might Be Holding My Spouse Back?	11/01/2018
	Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Safety in My Situation?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Do I Paint a New Picture of Our Marriage?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Move past Their Resentments?	11/01/2018