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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Does 'Working on the Marriage' Look like for the Unfaithful?	10/17/2018
	Q&A What Should I Expect from a Recovering Wayward Wife?	10/17/2018
	Q&A How Can I Continue to Heal Without My Feelings Being Hijacked by Fear?	10/17/2018
	Q&A Can We Recover from His Affair If We Live Ten Hours Apart?	10/17/2018
	Q&A How Can I Emotionally Detach from the Affair Partner?	10/17/2018
	Q&A How Can I Give My Anger a Healthy Outlet?	10/17/2018
	Q&A Should I Be Okay with My Mates Ex-Spouse Staying in Our Home When Family Comes to Visit?	10/17/2018
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What I'm Dealing With?	10/17/2018
	Q&A Do You Have Statistics on Relapse?	10/10/2018
	Q&A How Do I Forgive What My Mate Has Done?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Should I Be Open to Reconciliation?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Why Is Unprotected Sex within an Affair so Alluring?	10/10/2018
	Q&A How Can My Husband Protect Himself from Grooming Behaviors?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Is This a Controlling Behavior?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Can I Ever Expect My Mate's Attraction Towards the Affair Partner to End?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Am I Paranoid?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Is This a Normal Part of Recovery?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Can We Survive as a Couple?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Why Do You Believe We Are Not Defined as 'Sinners'?	10/10/2018
	Q&A What Can I Do for My Ambivalent Spouse?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Should We Disclose the Affairs with Our Children?	9/26/2018
	Q&A Should I Disclose My Revenge Affair to My Mate?	9/26/2018
	Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Has a Sexual Addiction?	9/26/2018
	Q&A How Can We Find Restoration in Our Intimacy?	9/26/2018
	Q&A How Do We Both Deal with My Mates Shame?	9/26/2018
	Q&A What Good Can Come from Loving an Addict?	9/26/2018
	Q&A How Can We Make Discovery Safe?	9/26/2018
	Q&A I Feel Stuck in My Mates Recovery. What Should I Do?	9/26/2018
	Q&A Can You Address Narcissism with Infidelity?	9/26/2018
	Q&A How Can We Move past This Slump in Recovery?	9/26/2018
	Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set around This Relationship?	9/26/2018
	Q&A How Do I Stop These Behaviors?	9/26/2018
	Q&A Is It Normal to Have Zero Interest in Reconciliation?	9/26/2018
	Q&A Why Is My Mate Reacting This Way?	9/26/2018
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Contacting the Affair Partner on Behalf of Your Spouse?	9/26/2018
	Q&A Am I Being Too Nice?	9/26/2018
	Q&A How Do I Find Hope for Our Relationship When It Feels so Hopeless?	9/20/2018
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Trauma and PTSD?	9/20/2018
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with Rejection?	9/20/2018
	Q&A How Can I Protect Myself from My Mates Unsafe Behaviors?	9/20/2018
	Q&A Is It Wrong That My Depression Has Lasted so Long?	9/20/2018
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand?	9/20/2018
	Q&A Why Is My Mate Encouraging a Revenge Affair?	9/20/2018
	Q&A How Can I Approach My Mates Fears in a Healthy Way?	9/20/2018
	Q&A How Can I Differentiate Fact from Fiction?	9/20/2018
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward?	9/20/2018
	Q&A How Does Alcohol Addiction Affect Recovery?	9/20/2018
	Q&A Does My Marriage Have a Chance of Making It?	9/20/2018
	Q&A What Type of Boundaries Can I Set for My Wife Who Has Had an Affair with Co-Worker?	9/20/2018
	Q&A Is It Wrong to Tell My Spouse That I’ve Given Her a Gift by Staying?	9/20/2018