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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Recover from the Devastation I Feel Regarding His Infidelities?	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Do We Handle My Husband Feeling Controlled?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Reconcile?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Why Won't My Mate Create a Safe Space for Me to Heal?	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Do I State Expectations without Being Codependent?	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Do We Get Closure?	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Can I Overcome My Barriers to Intimacy?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Is It Dangerous to Examine Photos and Messages from the Affair Partner?	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Can I Effectively Encourage My Spouse to Receive Individual Expert Help?	9/12/2018
	Q&A What Does Desire for Reconciliation Look Like?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Refuses to Break Contact with the Affair Partner?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Is Re-Connection Possible for Us?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Could This Lack of Safety Be Reason to End Our Relationship?	9/12/2018
	Q&A What Should I Do about Physical Abuse?	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Could Marriage Be Beneficial to Our Recovery Process?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Will My Desire for My Mate Return?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery in This Type of Situation?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Am I Still Deluded?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Can You Explain How Abandonment and Abuse Affects Child Development?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Can You Offer Insight into Getting Un-Stuck?	9/12/2018
	Q&A Why Did the Affair Partner Try to Tear Our Family Apart?	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Do I Combat Visual Triggers?	9/12/2018
	Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On	9/12/2018
	Q&A How Can We Stop Nightmares about the Affair?	8/29/2018
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Ending the Affair?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Long Should I Wait for Consistent Honesty?	8/29/2018
	Q&A Can You Explain Pleasing vs. Enjoying?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Can I Get past the Deceit and Betrayal?	8/29/2018
	Q&A Do You Have Advice for Handling Addiction along with Infidelity?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Can I Stop the Intrusive Thoughts?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Lying?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Create Safety in Our Recovery?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Do I Get beyond This?	8/29/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings towards the Affair Partner?	8/29/2018
	Q&A Why Is the Affair Partner so Hateful?	8/29/2018
	Q&A Will Our Marriage Get Better?	8/29/2018
	Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2	8/29/2018
	Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1	8/23/2018
	Q&A What Are Good Guidelines for Workplace Friendships with Members of the Opposite Sex?	8/22/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Working with My Spouse's Affair Partner?	8/22/2018
	Q&A Why Won't My Mate See the Affair for What It Was?	8/22/2018
	Q&A Where Is the Humility and Empathy?	8/22/2018
	Q&A Do You Know If There Is a Connection between OCD and Sexual Addiction?	8/22/2018
	Q&A Are Marriages More Likely to Dissolve During the First 6 Weeks of Discovery?	8/22/2018
	Q&A What Keeps My Betrayed Spouse from Acknowledging Her Lack of Safety in Our Relationship?	8/22/2018
	Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth?	8/22/2018
	Q&A What Do I Do When My Mate Stonewalls for Days?	8/22/2018
	Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted?	8/22/2018