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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Was My Husband in Love with His Affair Partner?	8/22/2018
	Q&A Is It Possible That My Wayward Spouse to Become More Ambivalent?	8/22/2018
	Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery?	8/22/2018
	Q&A What Can I Do with My Unmet Needs?	8/15/2018
	Q&A How Do We Protect Our Children During Recovery?	8/15/2018
	Q&A What Is the Next Step for Us?	8/15/2018
	Q&A Will My Husband Ever 'Get It'?	8/15/2018
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Communicating with the Affair Partners Spouse?	8/15/2018
	Q&A Am I Wrong in My Understanding That This Is Financial Infidelity?	8/15/2018
	Q&A Am I Making Too Much of the Words My Mate Uses?	8/15/2018
	Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Pursue Healing?	8/15/2018
	Q&A Will My Spouse Ever Grow Up?	8/15/2018
	Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate?	8/15/2018
	Q&A Do You Think Privacy Has a Place in a Marriage?	8/15/2018
	Q&A Can Our Marriage Be Restored?	8/15/2018
	Ending an Affair: Close the Door	8/15/2018
	Q&A How Can I Let Go of the Hurt from What My Spouse Shared with the Affair Partner?	8/08/2018
	Q&A How Do We Rebuild from the Rubble at This Point?	8/08/2018
	Q&A How Can Anyone Justify Abandoning the Kids?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Trauma to My Husband?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Can You Further Explain Compartmentalization?	8/08/2018
	Q&A How Do I Move On?	8/08/2018
	Q&A How Can We Heal Our Marriage and Create Safety with Family Members?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Is It Worth Doing the EMS Weekend after You've Already Done the Online Version?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Do I Need to Do All These Steps?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Do I Let Her Go?	8/08/2018
	Q&A How Do I Overcome This Vicious Cycle?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Is There Hope for Us?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Are Things beyond Repair?	8/08/2018
	Q&A What Will Happen to My Wayward Spouse If She Never Pursues Healing?	8/08/2018
	Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Why Can’t I Let Go of the Past?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Will There Be Mentor Stories with Dynamics Similar to Ours?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Is a Marriage Devoid of Sexual Intimacy Doomed?	8/08/2018
	Q&A How Are You Supposed to 'Enjoy' Your Mate When There Is so Much Anger and Pain?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Still Curious about the Affair Partner?	8/08/2018
	Q&A What Are Some Acceptable 'High Risk' Green Light Behaviors You Can Recommend for Couples?	8/08/2018
	Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision	8/08/2018
	Q&A Should I Cut Ties with Friends That Played a Role in My Mates Affair?	8/01/2018
	Q&A Is It Possible to Work on Re-connection While We Are Separated?	8/01/2018
	Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Mates Behavior Patterns?	8/01/2018
	Q&A How Can My Mate Help Restore My Honor?	8/01/2018
	Q&A Are We Doing Something Wrong in Our Recovery Process?	8/01/2018
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with the Challenges of Intrusive Sexual Thoughts?	8/01/2018
	Q&A Is There Hope for Us?	8/01/2018
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Ambivalence in Our Situation?	8/01/2018
	Q&A How Do I Approach My Mate about My Suspicion of an Affair?	8/01/2018
	Is it Love or Infatuation?	7/25/2018
	Q&A How Do I Keep from Making Things Worse?	7/23/2018
	Q&A What Can I Do to Better Understand My Betrayed Mate?	7/23/2018