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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'?	1/10/2018
	Q&A Can You Address Different Personalities in Marriage?	1/10/2018
	Q&A What Do You Do When the Affair Partner Won't Let Go?	1/10/2018
	Q&A Do I Force Him to Get Paternity Test?	1/10/2018
	Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter?	1/08/2018
	Q&A How Do I Hang on to My Resolve?	1/08/2018
	Q&A How Can I Communicate My Needs in the Marriage?	1/08/2018
	Q&A My Mate's Family Also Betrayed Me, How Do We Reconcile?	1/08/2018
	Q&A How Do I Show My Mate Grace?	1/08/2018
	Q&A Should I Tell My Affair Partner That I Don't Love Her?	1/08/2018
	Q&A How Can I Forgive Myself for Transmitting My Pain?	1/08/2018
	Q&A What Are Signs That Someone Might Relapse?	1/08/2018
	Q&A Is It Unreasonable to Expect My Mate to Be Honest about Their Needs?	1/08/2018
	Q&A What Can Affair Recovery Do Tell Help a Compulsive Liar?	1/08/2018
	Q&A How Do Actions Affect Identity?	1/08/2018
	Q&A How Is God Present in Our Struggles?	1/08/2018
	Q&A Should I Just Suck It Up?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Surrender Control?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can I Know If the Changes Are Genuine?	12/20/2017
	Q&A What Should My New Dream Look Like?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can He Not Get It?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do You End an Affair with an Unstable Affair Partner?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Do I Feel Stuck?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Does He Really Want Me?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much in Regards to Safety in Recovery?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Is It Taking My Unfaithful Husband Longer to Get over His Affair Than Me?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can I Get past These Incredibly Painful Feelings?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle Forgiveness When the AP Is a Family Member?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Is He an Addict?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Did My Husband Treat Me Like His Greatest Enemy during His Secret Affair?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Is It Time to Move On?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Do You Think Cheaters Are Just Morally Bankrupt?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Will This Pain Ever Let up over Time or Will Seeing This Constantly Keep Us All from Healing?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Is My Husband a Sex Addict?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Can't I Accept That My Mate Is Frustrated at Non-Affair Things?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can We Find an Appropriate Couples Counselor?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Does the Betrayed Spouse Have to Know Every Affair in Order to Heal the Marriage?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Aren't There More People Doing Blogs?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Engage?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Is My Mate Drawn towards Something Bad and Repulsed by Something Good?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Long Will the Emotional Fog Last?	12/20/2017
	Q&A What Can I Do to Heal from the Massive Anxiety I Am Now Facing?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can My Mate Heal from Sexual Anorexia?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Do You Work on a Marriage You Might End up Leaving?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Does the Unfaithful Compare Their Mate to the Affair Partner?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do You Handle Doubt?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Where Does Self-Love Fit in to the Process of Recovery?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Address My Separation Anxiety?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Long Will the Unfaithful Stay Ambivalent?	12/20/2017