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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can I Get Him to Understand?	7/09/2020
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Triggers and Reminders?	7/09/2020
	Q&A When Will the Urge to Snoop End?	7/02/2020
	Q&A How Do I Give 100% to My Mate during the Hard Moments?	7/02/2020
	Q&A How Do We Stop All-Or-Nothing Thinking?	7/02/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When the Wayward Spouse Remains Hidden?	7/02/2020
	Q&A How Do We Deal With Deflection and Blame?	7/02/2020
	Q&A How Do I Respond to My Wife When She Assumes I Had an Emotional Relationship With a Coworker?	7/02/2020
	Q&A What Should We Do With New Surprising Triggers?	7/02/2020
	Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Entering Into a Contract on a New Home Early in Recovery?	7/02/2020
	Q&A What Happens If a Husband and Wife Differ on What Constitutes Out of Line Behavior?	7/02/2020
	Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Finding the Right Therapist?	7/02/2020
	Q&A How Can I Trust a Man That Has Cheated Most of Our Marriage?	6/25/2020
	Q&A How Can I Tell If It's the Hurt and Pain or If She Really Wants a Divorce?	6/25/2020
	Q&A How Do I Remain Positive about Moving Forward?	6/25/2020
	Q&A What Are Some Exercises We Could Use to Help Us Let Go and Move Forward?	6/25/2020
	Q&A How Can I Prevent Resentment and Bitterness Forming in My Heart?	6/25/2020
	Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Is Being Genuine?	6/25/2020
	Q&A How Do We Reach Full Disclosure If My Wife Doesn’t Remember the Details?	6/25/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband Won't Stick to the Agreement?	6/25/2020
	Q&A Could Overwhelming Sadness Be Anger in Disguise?	6/25/2020
	Q&A Could I Have Broken the Cycle Before My Spouse Strayed?	6/25/2020
	Surviving Infidelity Part 2: What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses	6/24/2020
	Q&A What Am I Trying to Save Here?	6/19/2020
	Q&A How Do I Build Trust with My Wayward Spouse?	6/19/2020
	Q&A My Wife Says She Didn’t Mean to Hurt Me. How Do I Respond to This?	6/19/2020
	Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Recover from the Affair If They Don't Really Grieve the Loss of the Relationship?	6/19/2020
	Q&A How Do I Explain the Pain I’m Going Through, from the Betrayal Trauma My Husband Caused, to My Children?	6/19/2020
	Q&A How Can These Two Programs Be Helpful in Such a Mess of a Situation?	6/19/2020
	Q&A If My Spouse Is Going through the Hope for Healing Course, Should I Expect to See His Emotions Roller Coaster like Mine?	6/19/2020
	Q&A Do You Have Any Suggestions on Forgiving Someone You Can't Work through Things With?	6/19/2020
	Q&A Do I Quit Expressing My Hurt, Asking Questions, and Pray for Peace in Our Remaining Years?	6/19/2020
	Q&A How Do I Fall in Love with My Husband Again?	6/19/2020
	Q&A Are We Doing Enough to Help Our Situation?	6/19/2020
	Q&A Is This Too Much to Overcome?	6/19/2020
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Concern during Our Intensive Weekend?	6/19/2020
	Q&A Does My Husband Really Have Only a Sex Addiction?	6/19/2020
	Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing?	6/19/2020
	Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Prevent Flashbacks of Photos I Have Seen?	6/19/2020
	Q&A Is It Possible to Forgive a Person but Not Forgive Their Actions?	6/19/2020
	Q&A How Do I Feel Connected to My Sons Again so I Don't Take This out on Them?	6/19/2020
	Q&A Did My Husband Prefer His Affair Partner over Me?	6/18/2020
	Q&A Can You Explain Compartmentalization in General and in This Type of Situation Specifically?	6/18/2020
	Q&A How Do I Handle Seeing My Affair Partner in Public?	6/18/2020
	Q&A Is Overcoming an Affair Similar to Overcoming Alcohol Addiction?	6/18/2020
	Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know?	6/17/2020
	Q&A How Do We Handle Flooding?	6/10/2020
	Q&A How Do I Help Someone That Won't Come Clean?	6/10/2020
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward with This Feeling That I'm Not Safe?	6/10/2020
	Q&A Can You Define What Respect Is from the Male Point of View and Why Males Want Respect from Our Spouses?	6/10/2020