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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can I Stay Calm While Talking about the Affair?	5/28/2020
	Q&A Is There Any Way to Convince My Mate That I'm Not Emotionally Connected to My Affair Partner?	5/28/2020
	Q&A How Do We Change a Destructive Pattern in Our Marriage?	5/28/2020
	Q&A How Do I Avoid Relapse?	5/28/2020
	Q&A Is There a Difference between Reason and Justification?	5/28/2020
	Q&A Will the Triggers and Reminders Return?	5/28/2020
	Q&A Has Affair Recovery Considered a Bible Study for Those Struggling with Their Identity and Relationship with Christ?	5/28/2020
	Q&A Is My Request for Confrontation Reasonable?	5/28/2020
	Expert Q&A Preview: What Boundaries Can I Put in Place That Don’t Sound like Ultimatums?	5/28/2020
	Q&A Please Explain in More Detail What Rick Means by His Suggestion?	5/19/2020
	Q&A Can past Depression or PTSD Affect the Ability to Show Empathy?	5/19/2020
	Q&A How Do the Processes for Recovery and Relapse Prevention Differ for Sex Addicts?	5/19/2020
	Q&A What Is a Healthy Boundary for Alcohol in This Situation?	5/07/2020
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about Our Disclosure Process?	5/07/2020
	Q&A How Do We Heal without Full Disclosure?	5/07/2020
	Q&A What If You Feel the Wayward Spouse Is Not Telling the Whole Truth during the Telling of Their Story?	5/07/2020
	Q&A Is Ringing in the Ears Normal?	5/07/2020
	Q&A Should the Lack of Safety Be a Deal Breaker for Recovery?	5/07/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When My Wife Drinks and Get so Angry?	5/07/2020
	Q&A How Can I, as the Wayward Spouse, Help My Wife to Come to Accept Her Reality?	4/30/2020
	Q&A What Is the Process for Dealing with Raw Spots?	4/30/2020
	Q&A How Do I Salvage a Relationship with Two Best Friends Who Are Distancing Themselves from Me?	4/30/2020
	Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Managing My Emotions during Recovery?	4/30/2020
	Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Husband from Continuously Shutting Down?	4/30/2020
	Q&A Where Is the Empathy for Me?	4/30/2020
	Q&A Do I Stay Separated or Divorce If This Never Changes?	4/28/2020
	Q&A I Am Trying to Be Safe for My Wife, but How Can I Feel Safe from Her?	4/28/2020
	Q&A Will I Ever Feel Special Again?	4/28/2020
	Q&A What Are Your Suggestions When It’s Hard to Trust?	4/28/2020
	Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Comfortable Being in a Place with My Husband without Searching for Women Whom I Know Fit His Sexual Criteria?	4/28/2020
	Q&A Will This Ever Get Better and How Can I Help Myself to Recover This Part of My Marriage?	4/28/2020
	Q&A How Do I Make the Hard Decision to Stay or Move on after All These Years?	4/28/2020
	Q&A Why Am I Having an Emotional Reaction When My Spouse Shows Interest in Things Besides Recovery?	4/28/2020
	Q&A Is It Time for Me to Find My Own Counselor and Begin to Exit This Relationship?	4/28/2020
	Q&A How Can I Work to Create an Environment Where My Wayward Spouse Feels Safe?	4/28/2020
	Q&A How Do I Maintain Recovery During Times of Crisis?	4/28/2020
	Q&A Is It Really Possible for a Man to Fall Back in Love with His Wife If He Was in Love with His Affair Partner?	4/28/2020
	Q&A Can I Trust This as Real Change or Just Further Manipulation?	4/28/2020
	Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand My Concerns?	4/28/2020
	Q&A Will We Ever Be Able to Restore Trust in Our Marriage?	4/28/2020
	Q&A How Do I Take a Step Forward and Where Do I Go from Here?	4/16/2020
	Q&A What Strategies Can I Use for Patience during Recovery?	4/16/2020
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Helping Us Break Contact with the Affair Partner?	4/16/2020
	Q&A Are There Questions That Would Make the Empathy Exercise More Productive and Healing?	4/16/2020
	Q&A Is It Possible for Something like This to Not Change Us?	4/16/2020
	Q&A Can I Truly Be the Changed Person I Feel I Am Now?	4/16/2020
	Q&A Should We Continue EMS Online If My Spouse Continues to Blame Me for the Affair?	4/09/2020
	Q&A How Do I Know Limerance Isn’t What My Husband Feels for Me?	4/09/2020
	Q&A Why Do Wayward Spouses Want to Stay in the Marriage?	4/09/2020
	Q&A What Was My Husband Telling Himself When He Told Me All These Lies?	4/09/2020