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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery?	1/16/2020
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Sharing Specific Details about Me with His Affair Partner?	1/16/2020
	Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave?	1/16/2020
	Q&A How Do I Get past the Different Versions of the Story?	1/09/2020
	Q&A How Can I Ever Trust Again without Knowing the Full Truth?	1/09/2020
	Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries with Family Members?	1/09/2020
	Q&A How Do We Restore Trust?	1/09/2020
	Q&A Who Am I to Get Triggered When She's the One Who Was Betrayed?	1/09/2020
	Q&A Where Can I Get Help for My Trauma?	1/09/2020
	Q&A How to I Transform My Flooding and Anger so That I Stop Transmitting It?	1/03/2020
	Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much from My Wayward Spouse?	1/03/2020
	Q&A I Don't Want to Create a New Marriage, I Want My Old Marriage Back. How Do I Move Forward?	1/03/2020
	Q&A Why Wasn't My Husband Honest with Me?	1/03/2020
	Q&A How Can I Overcome My Sexual Fantasies?	1/03/2020
	Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over?	1/03/2020
	Q&A Do I Continue to Be Friends?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Do We Rebuild Trust?	1/02/2020
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts Regarding My Situation?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Long Should I Stay and Work on the Relationship before Leaving?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Do We Create Safety in the Workplace?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Do We Re-Establish Trust?	1/02/2020
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand This Quote?	1/02/2020
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on My Situation?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings and My PTSD?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Does Pregnancy with the Affair Partner Affect the Healing Process?	1/02/2020
	Q&A Does Working on the Marriage First Give the Wayward Spouse More Strength and Motivation to End the Affair?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Can We Achieve Closure and Develop a New Healthy Parenting Relationship?	1/02/2020
	Q&A Will the Hope for Healing Course Be Effective for My Husband?	1/02/2020
	Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Want to Meet Me?	1/02/2020
	Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to Understand That This Is a Big Deal?	12/19/2019
	Q&A How Do I Explain That Some Space Could Be a Good Thing?	12/19/2019
	Q&A Should I Continue Trying to Convince My Wayward Spouse to Seek Counseling?	12/19/2019
	Q&A How Do We Differentiate between What Secrets Are Safe to Keep and Which Should Be Shared?	12/19/2019
	Q&A Why Would My Husband Lie about His Desire for Me?	12/16/2019
	Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment?	12/16/2019
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse Still Trying to Contact the Affair Partner?	12/16/2019
	Q&A Could You Please Explain Dissociation and How It Can Cause and Affect People in Affairs?	12/16/2019
	Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth?	12/16/2019
	Q&A My Husband Is Having a Hard Time Recommitting. What Can I Do?	12/16/2019
	How Do I Forget the Affair Partner?	12/11/2019
	Q&A Is My Childhood Trauma Influencing My Life?	12/05/2019
	Q&A How Can I Gain a Better Perspective on What I've Done?	12/05/2019
	Q&A How Can I Overcome the Intrusive Thoughts during the Holidays?	12/05/2019
	Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Numb after so Much Trickle Truth?	12/05/2019
	Q&A What Do You Suggest for Renewing Wedding Vows?	12/05/2019
	Q&A What Does Consensual Sex Look like in Marriage?	12/05/2019
	Q&A Am I Wasting My Time on Someone That Clearly Doesn't Want to Be with Me?	12/05/2019
	Q&A How Can I Begin to Trust with All of the Trickle Truth Happening?	12/05/2019
	31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 3	12/04/2019
	31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 2	11/26/2019