All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 4970 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Is Hindering My Mate from Showing Empathy? 1/31/2020 Q&A When and How Do We Work through Triggers and Who Pursues Who in Our Marriage? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Do I Confront My Husband? 1/31/2020 Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Creating Safety with This Particular Trigger? 1/31/2020 Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Long Does It Take to Become a New Person in Recovery? 1/31/2020 Q&A Why Did His Guilt over the Affair Partner Win out over Me and Our Marriage? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her? 1/31/2020 Q&A What Is the Best Next Step for Us in Light of This Disclosure? 1/16/2020 Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This? 1/16/2020 Q&A What Is ‘Therapeutic Disclosure’ as It Relates to Pre-Polygraph Testing? 1/16/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery? 1/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Sharing Specific Details about Me with His Affair Partner? 1/16/2020 Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Different Versions of the Story? 1/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Ever Trust Again without Knowing the Full Truth? 1/09/2020 Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries with Family Members? 1/09/2020 Q&A How Do We Restore Trust? 1/09/2020 Q&A Who Am I to Get Triggered When She's the One Who Was Betrayed? 1/09/2020 Q&A Where Can I Get Help for My Trauma? 1/09/2020 Q&A How to I Transform My Flooding and Anger so That I Stop Transmitting It? 1/03/2020 Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much from My Wayward Spouse? 1/03/2020 Q&A I Don't Want to Create a New Marriage, I Want My Old Marriage Back. How Do I Move Forward? 1/03/2020 Q&A Why Wasn't My Husband Honest with Me? 1/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Overcome My Sexual Fantasies? 1/03/2020 Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over? 1/03/2020 Q&A Do I Continue to Be Friends? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Rebuild Trust? 1/02/2020 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts Regarding My Situation? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Long Should I Stay and Work on the Relationship before Leaving? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Create Safety in the Workplace? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Re-Establish Trust? 1/02/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand This Quote? 1/02/2020 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on My Situation? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings and My PTSD? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Does Pregnancy with the Affair Partner Affect the Healing Process? 1/02/2020 Q&A Does Working on the Marriage First Give the Wayward Spouse More Strength and Motivation to End the Affair? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Can We Achieve Closure and Develop a New Healthy Parenting Relationship? 1/02/2020 Q&A Will the Hope for Healing Course Be Effective for My Husband? 1/02/2020 Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Want to Meet Me? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to Understand That This Is a Big Deal? 12/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Explain That Some Space Could Be a Good Thing? 12/19/2019 Q&A Should I Continue Trying to Convince My Wayward Spouse to Seek Counseling? 12/19/2019 Q&A How Do We Differentiate between What Secrets Are Safe to Keep and Which Should Be Shared? 12/19/2019 Q&A Why Would My Husband Lie about His Desire for Me? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse Still Trying to Contact the Affair Partner? 12/16/2019 Q&A Could You Please Explain Dissociation and How It Can Cause and Affect People in Affairs? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth? 12/16/2019 Q&A My Husband Is Having a Hard Time Recommitting. 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