All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Power of Small Groups Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How to Survive Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 4838 Resources Type Title Posted Rick's Q & A Call on January 6, 2014 12/30/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on December 23, 2013 12/16/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on December 16, 2013 12/09/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on December 9, 2013 12/02/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on December 2, 2013 11/26/2013 I have no desire to be physically intimate with my mate since his infidelity, what can I do? 11/26/2013 How do I forgive myself for what I've done? I can't stop confessing and asking for forgiveness, how do I accept forgiveness? 11/18/2013 My husband is the hurt spouse and doesn't want to get help, things are getting better as I follow your advice, but can we recover if he doesn't get help? 11/18/2013 How do you deal with never knowing the truth and how do I handle his anger when I ask questions? 11/18/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on November 25, 2013 11/18/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on November 18, 2013 11/11/2013 How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll 11/06/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on November 11, 2013 11/04/2013 Official Rules of Drawings 10/30/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on November 4, 2013 10/28/2013 Can someone act out sexually and not enjoy the experience? 10/21/2013 We've entered the maintenance stage of recovery and my husband seems to be moving back into pretend normal, what can I do? 10/21/2013 We are seperated because my unfaithful mate says he needs to be focused on God, am I being a fool? 10/21/2013 What is the difference between fantasy (while acting out) and fantasizing? 10/21/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on October 28, 2013 10/21/2013 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013 How did your wife respond when you relapsed? Was it more difficult than the first time? 10/14/2013 My husband is having an emotional affair and won't address it. What are my options? 10/14/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on October 21, 2013 10/14/2013 How can sex addicts fight denial and self-deception? Can our mates ever be safe with us? 10/14/2013 My husband and I can't talk about his new job with out becoming defensive, how do we have a productive conversation and say on track with our recovery? 10/14/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on October 14, 2013 10/07/2013 I've lost my sexual desire for my wife after learning of all she's done. What can I do? 10/07/2013 We're six months into recovery and my husband seems to slipping back into old patterns. What can I do? 10/07/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on October 7, 2013 9/23/2013 My husbands answers as to why he had the affair scare me is that normal? 9/23/2013 I Want My Life Back 9/18/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on September 23, 2013 8/26/2013 It Seems I've Missed the Mark 8/13/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on August 26 8/12/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on August 12 8/05/2013 Grief-Transforming Loss 8/01/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on August 5 7/29/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 29 7/26/2013 How do you know if you have PTSD and what do you do about it? 7/26/2013 How do you make restitution after an affair? 7/15/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 22 7/15/2013 The Trap 7/10/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 15 7/08/2013 What factors determine how long it takes to recover? Does the anxiety ever go away? 7/05/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 8 7/05/2013 Rekindling Desire After Infidelity 6/26/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 1 6/24/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on June 24 6/17/2013 Pages« first‹ previous…828384858687888990…next ›last »