All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How to Survive Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 5033 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Should we File our Taxes? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can my Husband Consider Himself Single? 2/20/2015 Q&A Should my Spouse Take a Lie Detector? 2/20/2015 Q&A Should my Husband be Doing More? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Know if my Husband may be Having Another Affair? 2/20/2015 Q&A What do I do When Intrusive Thoughts Cause me to Pull Away? 2/20/2015 Q&A Can Women Compartmentalize as Men do? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Feel Safe? 2/20/2015 Q&A How do I Get to the Truth? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Stop Being my Spouse's Accountability Partner? 2/20/2015 Q&A Does my Husband have Intimacy Issues? 2/20/2015 Q&A Can I Stay With a Sex Addict? 2/10/2015 Q&A How am I Supposed to Accept the Idea of Relapse? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is it Possible that I Won't Recover? 2/10/2015 Q&A Should I Tell the AP's Spouse? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is Relapse Inevitable? 2/10/2015 Q&A How can we Agree on Financial Safety? 2/10/2015 Q&A (HFH) Am I Subconsciously Sabotaging my Marriage? 2/10/2015 Q&A When is Physical Intimacy Ok? 2/10/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Lying to my Spouse and Myself? 1/29/2015 Q&A Can We Reclaim our Territory? 1/29/2015 Q&A Why Should the Betrayed Spouse do all the Hard Work? 1/29/2015 Q&A How Can I Be Safe With my Daughter Contacting my Husbands AP? 1/29/2015 Q&A Looking for Hope 1/23/2015 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Repulsion I have Towards my Spouse? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Help my Pain While my Spouse has Newfound Happiness? 1/23/2015 Q&A How to Handle Divorce as a Church Leader 1/23/2015 Q&A Can I Leave Him? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Do I Get Past the AP Being in my House?! 1/23/2015 Q&A How do we Get to Ground Zero and end this Cycle? 1/23/2015 Q&A My Spouse is Maintaining Contact with his AP. What do I do? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Forgive a 7 Year Affair? 1/23/2015 Q&A (HFH) Am I a Sex Addict? 1/20/2015 Q&A How do I Know if I Have Forgiven Enough Times? 1/20/2015 Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Will Not Share. What do I do? 1/12/2015 Q&A Can a Man Be in Love With Two Women at the Same Time? 1/12/2015 Q&A How do I Start to Trust Again? 1/12/2015 Q&A Should I Be Healed by Now? 1/12/2015 Q&A Can We Recover From This? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) How Can I Break a Soul Tie with my Affair Partner? 1/06/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't my Husband Understand the Damage he is Causing? 1/06/2015 Q&A How Can I Stop Thinking About HIS Affair Partner? 1/06/2015 Q&A Do We Need Marriage as a Foundation? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Thinking About my Affair Partner? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) I Want to Contact my Affair Partner. How do I Stop Myself? 1/06/2015 Q&A Should I Allow my Husband to Move Back in? 1/06/2015 Q&A Can we Recover Without Romanticism? 12/19/2014 Q&A My Husband was Unfaithful for 10 Years. How can he Love me? 12/19/2014 Q&A How can he Love me and Love her? 12/19/2014 Pages« first‹ previous…838485868788899091…next ›last »