For the Unfaithful Spouse

Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse.

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Text icon Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1
Video icon Q&A What Keeps My Betrayed Spouse from Acknowledging Her Lack of Safety in Our Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted?
Video icon Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate?
Text icon Ending an Affair: Close the Door
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide?
Text icon Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with the Challenges of Intrusive Sexual Thoughts?
Text icon Is it Love or Infatuation?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Better Understand My Betrayed Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Wife That I Wasn't ‘Using’ Her during the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Convince My Wife That I Only Love Her?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Heal from My Lack of Empathy?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show My Spouse That I Am Truly Trying to Regain Their Trust?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Respond to My Wife's Feelings about Saving the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do?
Video icon Q&A Will My Feelings Come Back for My Betrayed Husband?
Video icon Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Change the Way My Spouse Views Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Prevent Relapse and Be Safe for My Wife?
Video icon Q&A Should I Contact the Affair Partners after Discovering My STD?
Text icon Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling
Text icon How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get My Mate to Understand the Good Times Weren’t a Cover up for the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Find Hope and Redemption in Divorce?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Keep Myself Safe in This Situation?
Video icon Q&A My Spouse Wants a Revenge Affair, What Do I Do?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with the Physical Pain of Not Ejaculating?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Answer the Question, 'Do You Promise You'll Never Do This to Me Again'?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions?
Video icon Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward?
Video icon Q&A Will Our Situation Change?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Respond to My Betrayed Husband?
Video icon Q&A (HFH) How Can I Connect with My Mate If They Don’t Want Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions?
Video icon Q&A How Does an Unfaithful Spouse Cope with Continued Shaming from the Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions?
Video icon Q&A Why Can’t I Remember When My Affair Started?
Video icon Q&A Are the Details of Relationships Prior to Marriage worth Sharing?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do If My Wife Has Totally Lost Trust in Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This?
Video icon Q&A When Do We Address My Mates Contributions to Our Marriage Issues?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Not Feel Like a Victim?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle the Trauma of Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A “What Are Our Chances of Reconciliation?