For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How to Survive Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness 304 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Are the Details of Relationships Prior to Marriage worth Sharing? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Can I Do If My Wife Has Totally Lost Trust in Me? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This? 10/10/2017 Q&A When Do We Address My Mates Contributions to Our Marriage Issues? 10/10/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Not Feel Like a Victim? 10/10/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle the Trauma of Infidelity? 9/27/2017 Q&A “What Are Our Chances of Reconciliation? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Far Back Should We Go? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse Not Compare Himself to My Awful Affair Partner? 9/08/2017 Q&A When Will It Start to Get Better? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle These Triggers? 9/06/2017 Q&A Is There No Longer Hope for Recovery? 9/06/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Wife Get over Her Anger? 8/18/2017 Q&A Am I Pushing Her Away by Wanting Her Too Much? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Wife’s Anger? 7/26/2017 Q&A When Will My Husband Visualize Himself with Me Instead of Seeing Me with the AP 7/26/2017 Q&A What If I Didn't Affair Down? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Partner with Their Flooding? 7/26/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation? 12/01/2016 Q&A How Can I Show True Empathy for My Wife? 10/18/2016 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 4/13/2016 The Story that Started Affair Recovery 2/24/2016 What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts? 10/27/2015 How Can My Unfaithful Wife Take Initiative In Recovery? 10/27/2015 How Can the Betrayer Get Past Guilt When Spouse Gives Constant Criticism? 10/27/2015 The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery 7/29/2015 Social Shame Survey 7/15/2015 Q&A How Can we Progress to a Better Marriage? 6/23/2015 Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie? 5/12/2015 Q&A My Spouse Works With Their Affair Partner. Will They Relapse? 5/04/2015 Q&A Can Our Marriage Begin Again? 5/04/2015 Q&A Why are Some Sex Addict Meetings Co-Ed? 5/04/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal with the Affair Partner Having Been in my House? 4/21/2015 Q&A (HFH) Rick, What was Your Personal Experience With Relapse? 4/15/2015 Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers? 2/24/2015 Q&A (HFH) Am I Subconsciously Sabotaging my Marriage? 2/10/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Lying to my Spouse and Myself? 1/29/2015 Q&A (HFH) Am I a Sex Addict? 1/20/2015 Q&A (HFH) How Can I Break a Soul Tie with my Affair Partner? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Thinking About my Affair Partner? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) I Want to Contact my Affair Partner. How do I Stop Myself? 1/06/2015 Q&A What is the Difference Between being Angry and Assertive? 12/15/2014 Q&A Should I Apologize to my Spouse's Family for my Affair? 11/14/2014 Q&A My Husband is Having Urges 11/05/2014 Surviving Infidelity: Poor Recovery Decisions of Unfaithful Spouses - Part 2 10/23/2014 Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp 9/17/2014 I Only Have Eyes for You 8/19/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »