For the Unfaithful Spouse
Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse.
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333 Resources
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Video Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Heal from My Lack of Empathy? 7/16/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Show My Spouse That I Am Truly Trying to Regain Their Trust? 7/06/2018
Video Q&A How Should I Respond to My Wife's Feelings about Saving the Marriage? 6/08/2018
Video Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018
Video Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do? 6/06/2018
Video Q&A Will My Feelings Come Back for My Betrayed Husband? 5/23/2018
Video Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Change the Way My Spouse Views Me? 4/11/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Prevent Relapse and Be Safe for My Wife? 3/23/2018
Video Q&A Should I Contact the Affair Partners after Discovering My STD? 3/23/2018
Text Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018
Text How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Get My Mate to Understand the Good Times Weren’t a Cover up for the Affair? 2/07/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Find Hope and Redemption in Divorce? 1/31/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Keep Myself Safe in This Situation? 1/31/2018
Video Q&A My Spouse Wants a Revenge Affair, What Do I Do? 1/31/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with the Physical Pain of Not Ejaculating? 1/31/2018
Video Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner? 12/06/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Answer the Question, 'Do You Promise You'll Never Do This to Me Again'? 11/28/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse? 11/15/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions? 11/10/2017
Video Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward? 11/10/2017
Video Q&A Will Our Situation Change? 11/10/2017
Video Q&A How Should I Respond to My Betrayed Husband? 11/10/2017
Video Q&A (HFH) How Can I Connect with My Mate If They Don’t Want Me? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Does an Unfaithful Spouse Cope with Continued Shaming from the Betrayed Spouse? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A Why Can’t I Remember When My Affair Started? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A Are the Details of Relationships Prior to Marriage worth Sharing? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A What Can I Do If My Wife Has Totally Lost Trust in Me? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This? 10/10/2017
Video Q&A When Do We Address My Mates Contributions to Our Marriage Issues? 10/10/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Not Feel Like a Victim? 10/10/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Handle the Trauma of Infidelity? 9/27/2017
Video Q&A “What Are Our Chances of Reconciliation? 9/27/2017
Video Q&A How Far Back Should We Go? 9/27/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse Not Compare Himself to My Awful Affair Partner? 9/08/2017
Video Q&A When Will It Start to Get Better? 9/06/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Handle These Triggers? 9/06/2017
Video Q&A Is There No Longer Hope for Recovery? 9/06/2017
Video Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Wife Get over Her Anger? 8/18/2017
Video Q&A Am I Pushing Her Away by Wanting Her Too Much? 7/26/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Wife’s Anger? 7/26/2017
Video Q&A When Will My Husband Visualize Himself with Me Instead of Seeing Me with the AP 7/26/2017
Video Q&A What If I Didn't Affair Down? 7/26/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Partner with Their Flooding? 7/26/2017
Video What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017
Video Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation? 12/01/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Show True Empathy for My Wife? 10/18/2016

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