For the Unfaithful Spouse

Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse.

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Video icon Q&A Why Can't I Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Process My Feelings for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Ever Fade?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A Is It Necessary to Wait until I No Longer Have Feelings for the AP to Reconnect with My Wife?
Video icon Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful
Video icon Q&A How Can I Fix What I've Done?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Emotionally Detach from the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop These Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair?
Video icon Q&A Will My Desire for My Mate Return?
Video icon Q&A Am I Still Deluded?
Text icon Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On
Video icon Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair?
Text icon Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2
Text icon Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1
Video icon Q&A What Keeps My Betrayed Spouse from Acknowledging Her Lack of Safety in Our Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted?
Video icon Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate?
Text icon Ending an Affair: Close the Door
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide?
Text icon Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with the Challenges of Intrusive Sexual Thoughts?
Text icon Is it Love or Infatuation?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Better Understand My Betrayed Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Wife That I Wasn't ‘Using’ Her during the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Convince My Wife That I Only Love Her?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Heal from My Lack of Empathy?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show My Spouse That I Am Truly Trying to Regain Their Trust?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Respond to My Wife's Feelings about Saving the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do?
Video icon Q&A Will My Feelings Come Back for My Betrayed Husband?
Video icon Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Change the Way My Spouse Views Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Prevent Relapse and Be Safe for My Wife?
Video icon Q&A Should I Contact the Affair Partners after Discovering My STD?
Text icon Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling
Text icon How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get My Mate to Understand the Good Times Weren’t a Cover up for the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Find Hope and Redemption in Divorce?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Keep Myself Safe in This Situation?
Video icon Q&A My Spouse Wants a Revenge Affair, What Do I Do?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with the Physical Pain of Not Ejaculating?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Answer the Question, 'Do You Promise You'll Never Do This to Me Again'?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse?