For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Problem with Forgiveness Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 337 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Wife That I Wasn't ‘Using’ Her during the Affair? 7/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Convince My Wife That I Only Love Her? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Heal from My Lack of Empathy? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Do I Show My Spouse That I Am Truly Trying to Regain Their Trust? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Wife's Feelings about Saving the Marriage? 6/08/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do? 6/06/2018 Q&A Will My Feelings Come Back for My Betrayed Husband? 5/23/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Change the Way My Spouse Views Me? 4/11/2018 Q&A How Can I Prevent Relapse and Be Safe for My Wife? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should I Contact the Affair Partners after Discovering My STD? 3/23/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A How Can I Get My Mate to Understand the Good Times Weren’t a Cover up for the Affair? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Find Hope and Redemption in Divorce? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Can I Keep Myself Safe in This Situation? 1/31/2018 Q&A My Spouse Wants a Revenge Affair, What Do I Do? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Physical Pain of Not Ejaculating? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Answer the Question, 'Do You Promise You'll Never Do This to Me Again'? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward? 11/10/2017 Q&A Will Our Situation Change? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Betrayed Husband? 11/10/2017 Q&A (HFH) How Can I Connect with My Mate If They Don’t Want Me? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Does an Unfaithful Spouse Cope with Continued Shaming from the Betrayed Spouse? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions? 11/01/2017 Q&A Why Can’t I Remember When My Affair Started? 10/25/2017 Q&A Are the Details of Relationships Prior to Marriage worth Sharing? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Can I Do If My Wife Has Totally Lost Trust in Me? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This? 10/10/2017 Q&A When Do We Address My Mates Contributions to Our Marriage Issues? 10/10/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Not Feel Like a Victim? 10/10/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle the Trauma of Infidelity? 9/27/2017 Q&A “What Are Our Chances of Reconciliation? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Far Back Should We Go? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse Not Compare Himself to My Awful Affair Partner? 9/08/2017 Q&A When Will It Start to Get Better? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle These Triggers? 9/06/2017 Q&A Is There No Longer Hope for Recovery? 9/06/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Wife Get over Her Anger? 8/18/2017 Q&A Am I Pushing Her Away by Wanting Her Too Much? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Wife’s Anger? 7/26/2017 Q&A When Will My Husband Visualize Himself with Me Instead of Seeing Me with the AP 7/26/2017 Q&A What If I Didn't Affair Down? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Partner with Their Flooding? 7/26/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? 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