Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How to Survive Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 3959 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse See's the Affair as My Fault? 3/10/2020 Q&A What Things Are Considered a Life Squeeze in the Cycle of Failure Exercise? 3/10/2020 Q&A Are Walls Instead of Boundaries Necessary for a Season? 3/10/2020 Q&A Is Sending an Apology Letter the Right Thing to Do? 3/10/2020 Q&A Is Depression Normal Eight Months out from Discovery? 3/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Become Safe for Someone Who Is Unsafe for Me? 3/03/2020 Q&A How Do You Define Healing for the Betrayed Spouse? 3/03/2020 Q&A Can a Couple Really Benefit from Doing This Work Every Week without the Wayward Spouse Initiating and Participating in Disclosure Attempts? 3/03/2020 Q&A Is It Possible That She Believed Her Emotional Affair Was Not Infidelity? 3/03/2020 Q&A Is There Hope of Healing without Relapse along the Way? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do We Handle My Husband's Newfound, Seemingly Irresistible, Fetish? 2/20/2020 Q&A Does It Matter If Someone Forced His Hand on Their Breast or It His Did It on His Own? 2/20/2020 Q&A Is My Husband a Sex Addict? 2/20/2020 Q&A Why Doesn’t It Seem He Wants a Healthy Wife and Be Safe for Her? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Understand That He Has Always Been Enough for Me? 2/20/2020 Q&A Why Is My Mate Giving Minimal Effort to Recovery? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Could Sex Mean Something with Me When My Mate Still Wanted It with Someone Else? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do I Know When to Avoid Reminders and When to Push through Them? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do We Manage Recovery from Both My Affair My Mates Addiction? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Can We Reach Honesty without Creating Triggers? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward in Forgiving Myself? 2/20/2020 Q&A What Methods Do You Recommend for Restoring Trust? 2/14/2020 Q&A Are My Feelings a Step Backward? 2/14/2020 Q&A Is This Gaslighting? If So, How Do I Respond? 2/14/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Overcome the Triggers? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Advice Would You Give around Our Recovery Efforts? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Might Be the Reasons for My Ex-Wife's Relational Pattern? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I View D-Day as the Date He Chose Me Rather Than the Day He Was Leaving Me? 2/14/2020 Q&A Have I Done Enough on My Part to Try and Heal ‘Us’? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Can We Prevent Relapse in This Work Situation? 2/14/2020 Q&A Can I Heal If My Husband Is Not Completely Safe? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Is the True Meaning of ‘Being Safe’ for the Injured Spouse? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Set Effective Boundaries as Someone Who Is Conflict Avoidant? 2/14/2020 Q&A Is It Time to Let Go and Move On? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Should I Do about My Wayward Spouse's Regression during Recovery? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do We Keep the Affair Partner from Pursuing My Spouse? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Finding Community during Recovery? 2/14/2020 Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle the Fact That My Husband’s ‘Safe Place’ for Porn and Masturbation Has Primarily Been at Work? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Get over My Husband's past Behavior? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Should I Do? 2/14/2020 Q&A Is the Affair a Result of My Mates Addiction Issues? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Do We Do After EMS Online? 2/11/2020 Q&A Is It Wise to Refrain from Sex with My Mate in This Situation? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Can I Move on after He Was so Intentional in Hurting Me? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Anxiety as My Wife Learns How to Share? 2/11/2020 Q&A Is There Any Reason for Me to Contact My Mates Affair Partner? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Response to the Truth in Love Exercise? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to End the Affair? 2/11/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…192021222324252627…next ›last »