Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A How Can an Unfaithful Spouse Develop Emotional Intelligence?
Video icon Q&A What Can We Do Differently?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible for Spouses to Have Emotional Affairs With Same Sex Best Friends?
Video icon Q&A Is This an Appropriate Deal-Breaker?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Heal from Sexual Abuse in Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body?
Video icon Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression?
Video icon Q&A Is This a Healthy Way to Process My Anger?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy?
Video icon Q&A Should I Get Breast Implants to Please My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership?
Video icon Q&A Are My Expectations to High? What Should He Be Doing to Reinforce That Love and Value of Me?
Video icon Q&A Am I Just Playing the Victim to Reduce My Guilt?
Video icon Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work?
Video icon Q&A How Do My Wife and I Avoid Pretending Normal and Actually Tackle the Issue of Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Be Comfortable Being Intimate Again?
Video icon Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Want Me to Obey Him after His Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Give This a Shot If We Don’t Reengage on Some Level?
Video icon Q&A Could It Be Limerance When the Affair Partner Is an Old Flame?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond to the Betrayed’s Triggers When It’s Affecting My Mental Health Now?
Video icon Q&A Am I Depriving Myself of True Healing in the Long Term If We Are Using This Method to Cope?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Know If You Are Grieving or If You Are Wallowing?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Knowing the ‘Who’ Matters More to Me than the ‘What’?
Video icon Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Channel My Own Genuine Positivity and Stop Being Concerned or Insulted by His Behaviors or Attitudes?
Video icon Q&A Where Does a Failed Polygraph Leave Us in Regards to a Timeline in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Us Understand Our Love Language Differences?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Make Your Partner Feel Understood, Trusted, like They Matter, and That It’s Ok to Make Mistakes, Without Enabling Bad Behavior?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible There Is a 7th Type of Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health?
Video icon Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Let Myself Be Happy Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Defensiveness?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing That He Already Has The Mindset That This Could Happen Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Convince Her to Engage More in the Group Therapy?
Video icon Q&A How Could He Go from One Affair to Another?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Support Him but Also Be Heard?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Over This Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Ever Get Over His Believing He Loved The Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate So That He Does Not Feel Condemned?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure When My Infidelity Was So Long Ago and I Can’t Remember All the Details?
Video icon Q&A As a Betrayed Husband Is It Unrealistic to Want My Wife to Pursue Me Physically?
Video icon Q&A What If the Hurt Spouse Needs More Information than the Wayward Spouse Is Willing to Give?