Q&A Recovery Library
Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A Do I Need to Allow the Wayward Spouse to Have More Time in the Recovery Process? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A What Should We Look for in a Therapist to Ensure They Can Provide the Specialized Support Needed for Infidelity Recovery? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Reconnect Intimately With My Betrayed Husband Now Knowing That He Is Dealing with His Own Temptations? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A Can You Please Address the Problem of Grieving Memories Like Childbirth Under the Shadow of an Affair? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A Is It Advisable to Leave This Church and Find Another Church Home to Help With Restoration and Recovery? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A Is It Okay for the Unfaithful to Masturbate While I, the Betrayed, Can’t Be Intimate Right Now Because of Lack of Emotional Connection and a Lot of Hurt? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A Will I Ever Accept His Reasons for the Affairs? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A Could You Give a Tangible Example of the Statement, ‘My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me’? 5/28/2024
Video Q&A How Is It Helpful to Label Someone for the Rest of Their Life When They Have Changed Directions? 5/14/2024
Video Q&A Does My Mate Still Have Feelings for His Affair Partner? 5/14/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Know When My Husband is Safe Again? 5/07/2024
Video Q&A How Do You Walk Your Heart Through Acceptance? 5/07/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Address Her Readiness to Engage With Someone So Despicable Versus Her Resistance to Reconnect Intimately With Me? 5/07/2024
Video Q&A How Much Does Alcohol Play a Factor in a One Night Stand? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A What Do You Recommend for Support for Those Going through the Lonely and Brutal Unique Situation of a Divorce Post Affair? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Cope With the Resurgence of Past Traumas Triggered by Such Betrayal? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A Every Time I Start to Feel Better, My Unfaithful Spouse Stops Putting in as Much Effort. How Can I Feel Safe When This Happens? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A How Do You Stop Thinking About and Forgive The Affair Partner? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A How Do We Know if Our Cheating Spouse Is a Sex Addict, Has a Personality Disorder, or if It Is Something Else? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A How Do We Recover the Large Sum of Money the Affair Partner Borrowed From My Husband? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A Where Can I Find Help for My Mate’s Cognitive Issues Surrounding the Lessons and My Grief? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A Should My Husband Keep His Mother in His Life Given That She Actively Facilitated and Supported His Actions? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A How Do You Move Past Regret Into Acceptance? 4/03/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Be More Help to My Wayward Spouse Like He Has Been for Me? 4/03/2024
Video Q&A How Can We Overcome Arousal Issues Resulting From Disclosure? 4/03/2024
Video Q&A How Can One Move Forward Knowing and Feeling Like This? 4/03/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with My Unfaithful Spouse’s Inability to Self-Reflect? 3/19/2024
Video Q&A Why Does My Husband Continue to Lie When I’ve Been a Safe Place for Him Since I Returned? 3/19/2024
Video Q&A Why Should I Stay With My Current Wife When I Really Want to Be With My Ex-Wife? 3/19/2024
Video Q&A How Does Betrayal Affect Pregnancy and the Well-Being of the Unborn Child? 3/19/2024
Video Q&A How Can Someone Love You Even During the Betrayal? 3/19/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partners Out of My Head? 3/19/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered? 2/28/2024
Video Q&A Will an Emotional Affair Become Physical with Enough Opportunity? 2/28/2024
Video Q&A Can You Describe ‘The Cycle of Grace’ in Secular Terms? 2/28/2024
Video Q&A What Do I Do with an Unfaithful Spouse Who Will Not Provide Me with Full Disclosure? 2/28/2024
Video Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Rebuild Real Empathy and Actually Care about Me Again? 2/28/2024
Video Q&A Is My Husband’s Erectile Dysfunction Due to His Affair? 1/30/2024
Video Q&A What Stops an Emotional Affair from Becoming Physical? How Do I Work through This Chasm in Our View of What Happened? 1/30/2024
Video Q&A Why Should I Go through This Program If I Don’t Believe My Unfaithful Spouse Loves Me Anymore? 1/30/2024
Video Q&A How Could My Unfaithful Partner Just Forget about the Affair Partner and What They Did Together? 1/30/2024
Video Q&A What Does Making Restitution Look Like in a Marriage after an Affair? 1/30/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us? 1/30/2024
Video Q&A Given That Addiction Is Part of His Personality with the Alcohol Abuse, Is He Also a Sex Addict? Is There Any Chance He Might Get Better with DBT Therapy? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A Is It Ok for My Husband to Meet With His Affair Partner? 1/09/2024

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