Q&A Recovery Library
Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video Q&A How Can I Get These Images Out of My Mind and Get back to Just Being With My Husband? 9/18/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal? 9/18/2024
Video A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 9/18/2024
Video Q&A Are We at the End of the Road? 8/20/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get Past or Heal From the Hurtful Things My Husband Said About Me to His Affair Partners? 8/20/2024
Video Q&A Would Viewing Surveillance Footage of My Husband’s Affair Be Helpful? 8/14/2024
Video Q&A Do We Tell My Wife Parents About Her Behavior in Their House? 8/06/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get over Feeling Disgust With My Partner Over Who He Chose to Have an Affair With? 8/06/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Truly Know if My Wayward Spouse Has Changed? 8/06/2024
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse Refuses to Meet My Emotional Needs? 8/06/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Better Understand the Behaviors of My Wayward Spouse? 7/31/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Understand That Abuse Towards Men Is Equal to Abuse Towards Women? 7/31/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024
Video Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Believe My Mate When They Say the Affair Is Over? 7/26/2024
Video Q&A If We Move, Would We Be Running From Our Problems or Could It Help Our Recovery? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A As the Betrayed, Should I Focus on Avoiding the Affair Partner? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A Do I Have to Take a Polygraph? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Using ‘Absolutes'? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A Should I Risk Provoking My Affair Partner if It Makes My Mate Feel Better? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A How Can We Reconnect if I Don’t Know What Happened? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A Do I Need to Allow the Wayward Spouse to Have More Time in the Recovery Process? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A What Should We Look for in a Therapist to Ensure They Can Provide the Specialized Support Needed for Infidelity Recovery? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Reconnect Intimately With My Betrayed Husband Now Knowing That He Is Dealing with His Own Temptations? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A Can You Please Address the Problem of Grieving Memories Like Childbirth Under the Shadow of an Affair? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A Is It Advisable to Leave This Church and Find Another Church Home to Help With Restoration and Recovery? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A Is It Okay for the Unfaithful to Masturbate While I, the Betrayed, Can’t Be Intimate Right Now Because of Lack of Emotional Connection and a Lot of Hurt? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A Will I Ever Accept His Reasons for the Affairs? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A Could You Give a Tangible Example of the Statement, ‘My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me’? 5/28/2024
Video Q&A How Is It Helpful to Label Someone for the Rest of Their Life When They Have Changed Directions? 5/14/2024
Video Q&A Does My Mate Still Have Feelings for His Affair Partner? 5/14/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Know When My Husband is Safe Again? 5/07/2024
Video Q&A How Do You Walk Your Heart Through Acceptance? 5/07/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Address Her Readiness to Engage With Someone So Despicable Versus Her Resistance to Reconnect Intimately With Me? 5/07/2024
Video Q&A How Much Does Alcohol Play a Factor in a One Night Stand? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A What Do You Recommend for Support for Those Going through the Lonely and Brutal Unique Situation of a Divorce Post Affair? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Cope With the Resurgence of Past Traumas Triggered by Such Betrayal? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A Every Time I Start to Feel Better, My Unfaithful Spouse Stops Putting in as Much Effort. How Can I Feel Safe When This Happens? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A How Do You Stop Thinking About and Forgive The Affair Partner? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A How Do We Know if Our Cheating Spouse Is a Sex Addict, Has a Personality Disorder, or if It Is Something Else? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A How Do We Recover the Large Sum of Money the Affair Partner Borrowed From My Husband? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A Where Can I Find Help for My Mate’s Cognitive Issues Surrounding the Lessons and My Grief? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A Should My Husband Keep His Mother in His Life Given That She Actively Facilitated and Supported His Actions? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A How Do You Move Past Regret Into Acceptance? 4/03/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Be More Help to My Wayward Spouse Like He Has Been for Me? 4/03/2024

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