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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 1243 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is It Possible for Something like This to Not Change Us? 4/16/2020 Q&A How Can We Get Our Needs Met during Recovery? 4/02/2020 Q&A How Do You Deal with Someone Who Lacks Self Awareness? 4/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Stop This Exhausting, Vicious, Cycle? 3/26/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Wanting Me to Hate the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020 Q&A What More Can Be Done to Save My Marriage? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Make Sure That the past Doesn't Ruin the Present? 3/16/2020 Q&A Is It Possible to Have Significantly Recovered at This Point in Healing? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Find Balance between Healing Myself and Healing Our Relationship? 3/16/2020 Q&A When My Husband Turns My Anger around on Me Is That Gaslighting? 3/12/2020 Q&A What Things Are Considered a Life Squeeze in the Cycle of Failure Exercise? 3/10/2020 Q&A Why Is My Mate Giving Minimal Effort to Recovery? 2/20/2020 Q&A What Advice Would You Give around Our Recovery Efforts? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Set Effective Boundaries as Someone Who Is Conflict Avoidant? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Should I Do about My Wayward Spouse's Regression during Recovery? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Finding Community during Recovery? 2/14/2020 Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Should I Do? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Do We Do After EMS Online? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Response to the Truth in Love Exercise? 2/11/2020 Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and Is It a Bad Thing If You Both Want to Stay in Your Marriage? 2/11/2020 Q&A When and How Do We Work through Triggers and Who Pursues Who in Our Marriage? 1/31/2020 Q&A What Is the Best Next Step for Us in Light of This Disclosure? 1/16/2020 Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020 Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries with Family Members? 1/09/2020 Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much from My Wayward Spouse? 1/03/2020 Q&A I Don't Want to Create a New Marriage, I Want My Old Marriage Back. How Do I Move Forward? 1/03/2020 Q&A Do I Continue to Be Friends? 1/02/2020 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts Regarding My Situation? 1/02/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand This Quote? 1/02/2020 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on My Situation? 1/02/2020 Q&A Does Working on the Marriage First Give the Wayward Spouse More Strength and Motivation to End the Affair? 1/02/2020 Q&A Will the Hope for Healing Course Be Effective for My Husband? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to Understand That This Is a Big Deal? 12/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Explain That Some Space Could Be a Good Thing? 12/19/2019 Q&A Could You Please Explain Dissociation and How It Can Cause and Affect People in Affairs? 12/16/2019 Q&A My Husband Is Having a Hard Time Recommitting. 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