Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness 283 Resources Type Title Posted , Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field 9/30/2015 The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery 7/29/2015 Social Shame Survey 7/15/2015 Q&A Where is the Line Between Honesty and Pretend Normal? 6/02/2015 Q&A Is it Normal to still be Hurting? 5/29/2015 Q&A How do I get him to be more interested in recovery?” 5/29/2015 Q&A What kind of age-appropriate conversations should I be having with my kids about the truth of what their dad has done? 5/29/2015 Q&A How do we find the Truth between Two Different Perspectives of the Affair?” 5/29/2015 Q&A Do They Have Lingering Feelings for the Affair Partner? 4/28/2015 Q&A Does my Spouse Need Therapy or Divorce? 3/20/2015 Therapist Mistakes When Dealing with Infidelity 3/03/2015 Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers? 2/24/2015 Surviving Infidelity: Poor Recovery Decisions of Unfaithful Spouses - Part 2 10/23/2014 Are They Thinking About the Other Person? 10/09/2014 Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp 9/17/2014 I Only Have Eyes for You 8/19/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 Official Rules of Drawings 10/30/2013 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 Rekindling Desire After Infidelity 6/26/2013 Interview of EMS Online Participants 7/01/2012 6 Steps To Confronting Your Mate About Betrayal 4/03/2012 Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 7/27/2011 How Many Marriages does Ashley Madison Save? 3/03/2011 Q&A How Do Men Compartmentalize? 8/23/2010 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 3/26/2010 Disclosing the Affair: Do I Tell or Not? 2/24/2010 The Shocking Truth About Trust 1/26/2010 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 8/21/2009 Grace in Recovery 3/09/2008 Anger Management 12/30/2007 Surviving the Holidays: An Interview with Dr. Karen Royer 12/16/2007 Pages« first‹ previous123456
