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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is It Appropriate to Abstain from Sex until Safety and Emotional Intimacy Have Been Established?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Can I Heal When I'm Sharing My Wife with a Coworker?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Can I Regain Sexual Attraction to My Husband?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Do I Salvage My Spiritual Relationship?	1/20/2021
	Q&A What Should I Do with the Evidence?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Why Did the Wayward Spouse Want to Reconcile, but Is Now in a Relationship with His Affair Partner Post-Divorce?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Do I Handle This Lapse in Motherhood When I’ve Been Needed?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Do I Get to the Point That I Feel Good about the Way That I Look?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Do I Stay in a Marriage with My Husband Who Won't Open up with Me?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Are My Husband and I Trying to Do the Impossible?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Should I Stay in the Marriage for My Kids?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Can We Heal Even When He Still Can’t Give Me a Full Account of His Affair?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Reconcile with My Husband and Be Close to My Sisters?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner?	1/14/2021
	Q&A What Type of Affair Does This Qualify As?	1/14/2021
	Q&A Why Do I Still Feel like Its My Fault She Had a Affair? Is This Normal for Betrayed Men?	1/14/2021
	Q&A What Else Can I Do to Prevent a Divorce or Retaliatory Affair?	1/14/2021
	Q&A As a Betrayed Spouse, How Do I Work through My Humiliation?	1/14/2021
	Q&A How Do I Get My Memories Pure and Special Again?	1/14/2021
	Q&A Is It Possible to Delude Oneself into Believing an Affair Wasn’t Emotional as a Means of Self Protection?	1/14/2021
	Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Safe Again?	1/14/2021
	Q&A Did He Really Not Consider Me or His Children?	1/14/2021
	Q&A How Can I Get These Constant Reminders Out of My Head?	1/14/2021
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse?	1/14/2021
	Q&A Should Sex Addicts Completely Stay Away from Sex, Including Healthy Sex with Their Wives, to Recover?	1/14/2021
	Q&A Shouldn’t We Be a Little Better by Now?	1/14/2021
	Q&A Can You Clarify the Statement, ‘Don't Rebuild Your Old Marriage. You Must Build Something New’?	1/07/2021
	Q&A How Do I Handle In-Laws?	1/07/2021
	Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage?	1/07/2021
	Q&A What Can I Do to Move Forward in My Relationship with My Husband?	1/07/2021
	Q&A How Can I Know My Mate Didn't Just Prefer Sex With Someone Else?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Is the Roller Coaster of Emotions Normal?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Probable It Is That He Can Stop Cheating and Have a Normal Sex Life?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Is It Common to Have Occasional Difficulties with Physical Intimacy, Impotence, or Performance Issues after an Affair?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Do We Help Our Adult and Teenage Children?	12/17/2020
	Q&A As the Betrayed, How Do I Stop Obsessing About the Affair Partner?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Is There Any Chance of a Future for Us Building a New Life Together?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Do We Deal with past Trauma?	12/17/2020
	Expert Q&A Preview: How Do We Deal with Anger and Rage?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband's Refusal to Consider Accountability?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Why Did My Wayward Husband Share Our Children’s Lives with the Affair Partner?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Will I Know I Am Totally Healed?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Can You Recommend Resources for My Husband's Issues?	12/17/2020
	Q&A I'm the Hurt Partner and I'm Extremely Codependent, Now What?	12/17/2020
	Q&A What Should My Response Be When He Is Ambivalent or Hostile toward God?	12/17/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband's Needs Are a Trigger for Me?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Should I Ask Him the Questions I Have About Presents That He Gave to Her?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Do We Restore Our Sexual Intimacy?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Once You Have Done Your Own Work to Heal, How Do You Know If You Should Stay?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Do I Tell Our 9 Year Old Daughter?	12/17/2020