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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Get over the Constant Reminder and Trigger?	9/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Find a Happy Medium Where I Can Learn to Be Myself Again, While Still Connecting with Him and Learning to Trust Him Again?	9/22/2020
	Q&A Is It Common to Loose Feelings for Your Wayward Spouse?	9/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Heal from the Damage of the Internet?	9/22/2020
	Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Betrayed	9/16/2020
	Q&A How Do I Recover from My Anger Resulting from an Unhealthy Recovery Process?	9/10/2020
	Q&A Would We Be Wrong to Cut off a Child Born as a Result of the Affair to Save Our Marriage?	9/10/2020
	Q&A Why Isn't There Acknowledgement That Infidelity Is a Form of Abuse?	9/10/2020
	Q&A Will I Ever See My Husband as ‘Mine’ Again?	9/03/2020
	Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner?	9/03/2020
	Q&A How Can These Memories Be Recovered?	9/03/2020
	Q&A Should the Wayward Spouse Contact the Affair Partner When an STD Has Been Diagnosed?	9/03/2020
	Q&A My Wife Is Considering a Revenge Affair. What Should I Do?	9/03/2020
	Q&A How Do I Get to the Truth?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Will the Same Debilitating Pain Continue to Happen over the Years?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Do I Give up This Need That Is Always in the Back of My Mind?	9/02/2020
	Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Communicate to My Spouse That Their Behavior Is Not Acceptable?	9/02/2020
	Q&A What Guidelines Can I Share for Friends or Family Who Are Trying to Be Supportive?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Can Any Person Not Know Why They Have Done Something?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Is There a Time to Reconcile with Friends Involved in the Affair?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Do I Process My Husband's Behavior While We Were Divorced?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Should I Be Working on Being Strong Enough to Leave?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Can You Please Give Me Some More Information on a Written Disclosure?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Is It Possible to Compartmentalize the Way My Husband Did?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Long Do I Put up with My Wife's Ambivalence?	9/02/2020
	Q&A What Can I Do If I Now Have Too Much Detail?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Can We Make the Pictures Disappear?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Do We Get past Both Betrayals?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Do You Deal with Your Own Parents and Siblings Not Supporting Your Reconciliation?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Do I Get past Him Having Sex with Another Person?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Could His Early Experience Have Played a Part in His Affair and His Attitude Toward Sex Now?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Husband Still Cannot Recommit to the Marriage?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Should I Spend the Last Best Years of My Life Married, Surviving Infidelity, or Divorced?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Would It Be Harmful to Ask If, and for How Long, There May Have Been Flashbacks or Memories of a Physical Affair?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Long Is Too Long for Grieving?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Comfort the Wayward Spouse?	8/27/2020
	Q&A How Do I Deal with This New Information That I Apparently Am Incompatible with Her Now?	8/27/2020
	Q&A Am I Overreacting or Is My Husband Not Taking Responsibility?	8/27/2020
	Q&A If Our Marriage Was So Wonderful, Why Did He Have an Affair?	8/27/2020
	Q&A Should We Tell Our Friends?	8/27/2020
	Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Has Broken off the Affair?	8/27/2020
	Q&A Is There Therapy for an Attachment Disorder and If So What Is It?	8/27/2020
	Q&A Is It Possible to Feel No Shame or Guilt?	8/27/2020
	Q&A My Husband Became a Bitter Person, What Should I Do?	8/27/2020
	Q&A What Is a Real Trigger?	8/20/2020
	Q&A Is My Husband's Behavior Abusive?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Would a Polygraph Test Benefit Us?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Is My Spouse Telling the Truth?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Why Do I Have to Work for Truth When I Was Not the One That Was Unfaithful?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask for Details?	8/18/2020