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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Wanting Me to Hate the Affair Partner?	3/19/2020
	Q&A How Do I Handle Being in the Friend Zone with My Wife?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Long Does It Take for the Wayward Spouse to See Clearly?	3/16/2020
	Q&A Can I Get My Motivation Back?	3/16/2020
	Q&A Is There Any Way to Help My Wayward Spouse?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Is Recovery Different If the Porn Addiction Is Same Sex?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear around My Ex-Wife's Possible Relationship?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Do I Counter the Serious Assault on My Self Esteem?	3/16/2020
	Q&A Is It Okay to Have Sex with My Mate under These Circumstances?	3/16/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do If My Husband Won't Get Help?	3/16/2020
	Q&A What More Can Be Done to Save My Marriage?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Can I Make Sure That the past Doesn't Ruin the Present?	3/16/2020
	Q&A Can My Wife Get the Help She Needs Given This Situation?	3/16/2020
	Q&A What Can We Do When My Husband’s Only True Confidant Is a Serious Trigger for Me?	3/16/2020
	Q&A Can a Couple Survive Multiple Sexual Infidelities Including One Embroiled in Legal Issues?	3/16/2020
	Q&A Do Serious Health Issues Impact a Spouses Decision to Have an Affair?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Can I Be Authentic and Safe with My Emotions during Recovery?	3/16/2020
	Q&A Is It Possible to Have Significantly Recovered at This Point in Healing?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Do I Find Balance between Healing Myself and Healing Our Relationship?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Do I Address My Spouse's Flirtatious Behaviors?	3/16/2020
	Q&A When My Husband Turns My Anger around on Me Is That Gaslighting?	3/12/2020
	Q&A What Behaviors Constitute Relapse?	3/10/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse See's the Affair as My Fault?	3/10/2020
	Q&A What Things Are Considered a Life Squeeze in the Cycle of Failure Exercise?	3/10/2020
	Q&A Are Walls Instead of Boundaries Necessary for a Season?	3/10/2020
	Q&A Is Sending an Apology Letter the Right Thing to Do?	3/10/2020
	Q&A Is Depression Normal Eight Months out from Discovery?	3/03/2020
	Q&A How Do I Become Safe for Someone Who Is Unsafe for Me?	3/03/2020
	Q&A How Do You Define Healing for the Betrayed Spouse?	3/03/2020
	Q&A Can a Couple Really Benefit from Doing This Work Every Week without the Wayward Spouse Initiating and Participating in Disclosure Attempts?	3/03/2020
	Q&A Is It Possible That She Believed Her Emotional Affair Was Not Infidelity?	3/03/2020
	Q&A Is There Hope of Healing without Relapse along the Way?	2/20/2020
	Q&A How Do We Handle My Husband's Newfound, Seemingly Irresistible, Fetish?	2/20/2020
	Q&A Does It Matter If Someone Forced His Hand on Their Breast or It His Did It on His Own?	2/20/2020
	Q&A Is My Husband a Sex Addict?	2/20/2020
	Q&A Why Doesn’t It Seem He Wants a Healthy Wife and Be Safe for Her?	2/20/2020
	Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Understand That He Has Always Been Enough for Me?	2/20/2020
	Q&A Why Is My Mate Giving Minimal Effort to Recovery?	2/20/2020
	Q&A How Could Sex Mean Something with Me When My Mate Still Wanted It with Someone Else?	2/20/2020
	Q&A How Do I Know When to Avoid Reminders and When to Push through Them?	2/20/2020
	Q&A How Do We Manage Recovery from Both My Affair My Mates Addiction?	2/20/2020
	Q&A How Can We Reach Honesty without Creating Triggers?	2/20/2020
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward in Forgiving Myself?	2/20/2020
	Q&A What Methods Do You Recommend for Restoring Trust?	2/14/2020
	Q&A Are My Feelings a Step Backward?	2/14/2020
	Q&A Is This Gaslighting? If So, How Do I Respond?	2/14/2020
	Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Overcome the Triggers?	2/14/2020
	Q&A What Advice Would You Give around Our Recovery Efforts?	2/14/2020
	Q&A What Might Be the Reasons for My Ex-Wife's Relational Pattern?	2/14/2020
	Q&A How Do I View D-Day as the Date He Chose Me Rather Than the Day He Was Leaving Me?	2/14/2020