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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Grieve and Let Go?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Does My Husband Have an Addiction?	1/28/2019
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about Our Dilemma?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Should We Set Boundaries with Masturbation in Marriage?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Will I Be Able to Find Joy Again?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband I Did Love Him and Still Do?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Process Grief?	1/23/2019
	Q&A Is It Okay to Ask for 90 Days of Abstinence?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Begin to Heal If My Mate Isn't Putting in Effort?	1/23/2019
	Q&A Why Has Our Recovery Journey Been so Different?	1/23/2019
	Q&A Should I Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse?	1/23/2019
	Q&A Is My Mate Doing Enough to Heal and Be Safe?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Apply Boundaries and Reconcile?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Can I Make Disclosure Safe?	1/23/2019
	Q&A Will Our Recovery Process Be Different from General Infidelity?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Do We Handle a Fetish That Causes Triggers?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Do We Get to Full Disclosure?	1/23/2019
	Q&A Are Affairs Early in Marriage More Damaging?	1/23/2019
	Q&A When Is Enough Enough?	1/23/2019
	Q&A Should I Reconcile with the Affair Partner Who Was a Close Friend?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Change My Thinking?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Fall in Love with Me Again?	1/22/2019
	Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate with Discovery?	1/22/2019
	Q&A Is My Betrayed Wife's Behavior Normal?	1/22/2019
	Q&A Should My Wayward Spouse Find a New Career to Create Safety?	1/22/2019
	Q&A Did I Make a Mistake in Ending the Marriage?	1/22/2019
	Q&A Should We Continue with the After-Care Program for the Rest of Our Lives?	1/22/2019
	Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set around Our Emotions?	1/22/2019
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward from This?	1/22/2019
	Q&A What Does It Mean to Be a Safe Place for the Betrayed's Anger?	1/22/2019
	Q&A How Do I Help My Mates Triggers?	1/16/2019
	Q&A How Important Is It to Deal with All Betrayals Whether before or after Marriage?	1/16/2019
	Q&A How Do I Feel Love Again for the Wayward Spouse?	1/16/2019
	Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Pursuing Me?	1/16/2019
	Q&A Should We Disclose Details about past Partners?	1/16/2019
	Q&A Should I Give My Mate a Second Chance?	1/16/2019
	Q&A Do I Save Myself or Save the Marriage?	1/16/2019
	A Betrayed Spouse Chimes In - How I Recovered After My Husband's Infidelity	1/16/2019
	Q&A How Can We Reconnect While Living Apart?	1/09/2019
	Q&A Have We Both Betrayed Each Other?	1/09/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Resources to Help with Connection?	1/09/2019
	Q&A When Should a Betrayed Spouse Stop Pushing for Answers to Questions?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Choosing to Stay?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Do We Manage Safe Boundaries with a Child from the Affair?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Do We End Our Separation?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Comparison to the Affair Partner?	1/09/2019
	Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Husband Interested in Me Sexually?	1/09/2019
	Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Continue to Attempt Contact?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Do I Balance Processing Everything without Becoming Overwhelmed with It?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Do We Overcome Secondary Issues and Address the Infidelity?	1/09/2019