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	Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall	10/19/2026
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	Q&A Is There A Connection Between Sex Addiction and Limerence?	10/22/2026
	Q&A What's The Point in Continuing to Dig to 'Find Out What Happened' When I've Already Given Full Disclosure?	10/22/2026
	Q&A I'm Doing All I Can to Remain Safe, Grounded, & Healthy - Why Am I Being Blamed for Their Insecurity?	10/22/2026
	Q&A Am I Emotionally Ruined for Good, Or Can This Change Over Time?	10/22/2026
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4640 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Heal When Time Has Been Taken from Me?	1/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Respond to My Husband's Outburst?	1/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Maintain a Realistic View of My Spouse, Marriage and Expectations in Life Married to a Sex Addict?	1/28/2019
	Q&A What Is Something That Couple's Do to Take Back Anniversary Dates?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Is There Any Reason to Still Be Here?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Should I Consider Counseling?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Why Seek Recovery for a Marriage That Was Always Bad?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Should My Husband Be Evaluated for Sexual Addiction?	1/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Define My Losses?	1/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Grieve and Let Go?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Does My Husband Have an Addiction?	1/28/2019
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about Our Dilemma?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Should We Set Boundaries with Masturbation in Marriage?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Will I Be Able to Find Joy Again?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband I Did Love Him and Still Do?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Process Grief?	1/23/2019
	Q&A Is It Okay to Ask for 90 Days of Abstinence?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Begin to Heal If My Mate Isn't Putting in Effort?	1/23/2019
	Q&A Why Has Our Recovery Journey Been so Different?	1/23/2019
	Q&A Should I Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse?	1/23/2019
	Q&A Is My Mate Doing Enough to Heal and Be Safe?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Apply Boundaries and Reconcile?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Can I Make Disclosure Safe?	1/23/2019
	Q&A Will Our Recovery Process Be Different from General Infidelity?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Do We Handle a Fetish That Causes Triggers?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Do We Get to Full Disclosure?	1/23/2019
	Q&A Are Affairs Early in Marriage More Damaging?	1/23/2019
	Q&A When Is Enough Enough?	1/23/2019
	Q&A Should I Reconcile with the Affair Partner Who Was a Close Friend?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Change My Thinking?	1/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Fall in Love with Me Again?	1/22/2019
	Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate with Discovery?	1/22/2019
	Q&A Is My Betrayed Wife's Behavior Normal?	1/22/2019
	Q&A Should My Wayward Spouse Find a New Career to Create Safety?	1/22/2019
	Q&A Did I Make a Mistake in Ending the Marriage?	1/22/2019
	Q&A Should We Continue with the After-Care Program for the Rest of Our Lives?	1/22/2019
	Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set around Our Emotions?	1/22/2019
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward from This?	1/22/2019
	Q&A What Does It Mean to Be a Safe Place for the Betrayed's Anger?	1/22/2019
	Q&A How Do I Help My Mates Triggers?	1/16/2019
	Q&A How Important Is It to Deal with All Betrayals Whether before or after Marriage?	1/16/2019
	Q&A How Do I Feel Love Again for the Wayward Spouse?	1/16/2019
	Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Pursuing Me?	1/16/2019
	Q&A Should We Disclose Details about past Partners?	1/16/2019
	Q&A Should I Give My Mate a Second Chance?	1/16/2019
	Q&A Do I Save Myself or Save the Marriage?	1/16/2019
	A Betrayed Spouse Chimes In - How I Recovered After My Husband's Infidelity	1/16/2019
	Q&A How Can We Reconnect While Living Apart?	1/09/2019
	Q&A Have We Both Betrayed Each Other?	1/09/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Resources to Help with Connection?	1/09/2019