All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Problem with Forgiveness Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Power of Small Groups Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 4843 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Thinking About my Affair Partner? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) I Want to Contact my Affair Partner. How do I Stop Myself? 1/06/2015 Q&A Should I Allow my Husband to Move Back in? 1/06/2015 Q&A Can we Recover Without Romanticism? 12/19/2014 Q&A My Husband was Unfaithful for 10 Years. How can he Love me? 12/19/2014 Q&A How can he Love me and Love her? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Get Away From Pretend Normal? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Transition from being Married to being Single with a Child? 12/19/2014 Q&A My Husband Isn't Taking Action. Should I Leave? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Deal With my Anger and Emotions? 12/16/2014 Q&A How can I Stop the Images from Popping up in my Mind? 12/16/2014 Q&A How Can I Show my Husband he is a Sex Addict? 12/16/2014 Q&A Can I Heal Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2014 Q&A How far do I Push for the Truth? 12/16/2014 Q&A Is Pornography Okay for Spouses to Watch Together? 12/16/2014 Q&A When will my Husband Understand his Feelings so that I can Feel Safe? 12/15/2014 Q&A What is the Difference Between being Angry and Assertive? 12/15/2014 Q&A Will the Repulsion go Away? 12/15/2014 Q&A Can I Recover Without Details? 12/15/2014 Q&A Am I Crazy, or is my Husband Telling the Truth? 12/11/2014 Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way? 12/11/2014 Q&A How Can I Calm the Hauntings? 12/11/2014 Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A Is it Common for Unfaithful to Confess Affair but Continue Lying? 12/11/2014 Q&A If my Husband Affaired down, did his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization 12/11/2014 Q&A My Husband Refuses to get Help and Give me Disclosure 12/11/2014 Q&A What Can I do to Create Empathy Between me and my Spouse? 12/11/2014 Q&A Why is the Unfaithful Blessed While the Betrayed Loses it All? 12/11/2014 Q&A How can I get my Spouse to let me Heal? 12/10/2014 Q&A Timelines for Intense Pain and Forgiveness, How Long Does it Take? 12/10/2014 Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile? 12/10/2014 Q&A Trouble Agreeing on Who to Tell, now What? 12/10/2014 Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life? 12/10/2014 Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Become Unfaithful? 12/10/2014 Q&A Which Course Should my Spouse Take? 12/10/2014 Q&A When is it Healthy to Stop Talking About the Affair? 12/10/2014 Q&A My Husband Continuously "Forgets" 12/10/2014 Q&A How Do I Know if my Spouse is Really Changing or just Pretending? 12/10/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future? 12/05/2014 Q&A What's the Difference Between a Boundary and an Ultimatum? 12/05/2014 Q&A Should I Share my Temptations and/or Failings with my Spouse? 12/01/2014 Q&A How do I Know if I've Forgiven my Husband? 11/24/2014 Q&A Can a Narcissist Change? 11/24/2014 Q&A How do I Handle my Spouse's Affair Partner Having Explicit Photos of my Spouse? 11/24/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Length of my Husband's Affair? 11/24/2014 Q&A When Will This Nightmare End?! 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest? 11/24/2014 Q&A My Husband's Affair Partner is Blackmailing Us. 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