For The Hurt Spouse
There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.
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1218 Resources
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Video Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage? 1/07/2021
Video Q&A What Can I Do to Move Forward in My Relationship with My Husband? 1/07/2021
Video Q&A How Can I Know My Mate Didn't Just Prefer Sex With Someone Else? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A How Probable It Is That He Can Stop Cheating and Have a Normal Sex Life? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A As the Betrayed, How Do I Stop Obsessing About the Affair Partner? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband's Refusal to Consider Accountability? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Why Did My Wayward Husband Share Our Children’s Lives with the Affair Partner? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A I'm the Hurt Partner and I'm Extremely Codependent, Now What? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband's Needs Are a Trigger for Me? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Should I Ask Him the Questions I Have About Presents That He Gave to Her? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Would Her Medication Have Created the Same Brain Chemicals as Limerence? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Is My Wife's On-Going Ambivalence Towards Our Relationship the Best That I Can Hope For? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward with My Husband If There Is No Disclosure? 12/17/2020
Text The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020
Video Q&A How Much Pain Can One Take before They Break? 11/24/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do When Exercise Is a Trigger? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Is This Ultimatum Unreasonable? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Could You Help? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Should I Ask Him to Hear My Story? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Is It Time to Just Formally End My Marriage? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A What Should I Do with His Lapse in Judgement? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Is It Wrong to Ask My Husband to Understand the Affair Partner's Personality Disorder? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Figure Out What to Do? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Should He Leave His Job? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A What Should I Do with an Ambivalent Partner When a Baby Is Involved? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Know if My Husband Has Completely Detoxed From the Affair Partner? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A What Is the Census of Disclosing the Affair to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Address My Overwhelming Fear? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Discern If or When It's Safe to Trust Him Again? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A What Can I Do about My Defensive Husband That Doesn't Follow through on His Commitments to the Marriage? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do about a Husband That Does Not Want to Work on Himself? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Move on with My Wayward Husband? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A How Should the Betrayed Respond When the Wayward Spouse Lashes Out? 11/12/2020
Text Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 11/11/2020
Video Q&A How Can He Do All of This Good Recovery Work and Still Lie? 10/29/2020
Video Q&A Is It Appropriate to Ask the Wayward Spouse to Take a Polygraph? 10/29/2020
Video Q&A How Does He Change His Behavior If He Can Not See Himself Doing It? 10/29/2020
Video Q&A Am I Being Too Hard or Unreasonable? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A What Would Be a Good Plan for Me Going Forward? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is This Approach Sufficient for Healing Our Marriage after His 7-Year Affair? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is It Possible for an Addiction of This Severity to Change So Quickly? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Respect My Husband after What He Has Done to Me and Our Family after Multiple Lies, Betrayal, and Affairs? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is There Anything Else I Should Be Doing? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is a Trauma Bond Repairable? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is It Codependent to Stay in a Marriage for the Happiness of Your Children? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Can I Get My Husband to Try? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward in This Situation When All I Feel Is Anger? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Will He Ever Go Back to Being the Man I Used to Know? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is It Ever Just Too Much to Get Past? 10/22/2020

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