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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 569 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Will Our Marriage Get Better? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Do We Protect Our Children During Recovery? 8/15/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Communicating with the Affair Partners Spouse? 8/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Approach My Mate about My Suspicion of an Affair? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Much Information Should I Have about the Affair? 7/11/2018 Q&A Do You Think It Is Important to Confess Infidelity to Parents? 7/06/2018 Q&A Could a Polygraph Help Us Move Forward in Our Healing? 6/27/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for the Betrayed Moving through Discovery? 6/27/2018 Q&A Can You Give Us Guidance on Reaching Full Disclosure? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That I Truly Have All the Information? 6/15/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018 Q&A Is It Possible That He Is Being Truthful? 6/07/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair? 5/18/2018 Q&A Could He Be Telling the Truth? 5/18/2018 Q&A What Do I Do about My Mother-In-Law? 5/16/2018 Q&A Why Do I Want to Know More? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Long Can This Process Take and What, If Anything, Should I Be Doing Differently? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Heal from All of the Secrets My Husband Kept from Me? 4/25/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair? 4/25/2018 Q&A How Can I Reach Full Disclosure While Protecting Myself from Intrusive Thoughts? 4/18/2018 Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure? 4/05/2018 Q&A Should We Tell Our Parents about the Infidelity? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Unfaithful Spouse Won't Share the Whole Story? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Appropriately Describe What Is Happening to My Teenage Children? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle This Relapse? 3/12/2018 Q&A How Do People Heal from Betrayal? 3/12/2018 Q&A What Questions Can I Ask That Won't Lead to Intrusive Thoughts? 3/12/2018 Q&A Can Flooding Present Itself Physically? 3/12/2018 Q&A Is It Normal for Sexual Interactions to Change after Discovery? 3/12/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A How Do We Address the Affair without It Being so Negative? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Deceit? 2/14/2018 Q&A What’s the Best Way to Process with My Mate? 2/14/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 Q&A Should I Reveal My Spouse's Affair? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can We Maintain Safety While Navigating Discovery? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can We Heal without a Shared History? 1/31/2018 Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'? 1/10/2018 Q&A Do I Force Him to Get Paternity Test? 1/10/2018 Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Forgiveness When the AP Is a Family Member? 12/20/2017 Q&A Does the Betrayed Spouse Have to Know Every Affair in Order to Heal the Marriage? 12/20/2017 Q&A Would a Lie Detector Test Help or Hurt? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Should Someone Disclose the Use of Pornography? 11/28/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…2345678910…next ›last »
