Recovery Fundamentals Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough. Must Reads more less Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Power of Small Groups Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 1276 Resources Type Title Posted Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders 9/20/2023 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 9/13/2023 A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure 8/16/2023 Q&A What Would Be Best for His Healing and Our Reconciliation? 8/15/2023 Q&A Are the Boundaries My Mate Has Placed on Our Conversations a Red Flag in Recovery? 8/15/2023 My Spouse Had an Affair: What Should I Do Now? 8/09/2023 The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 7/26/2023 How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/19/2023 Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery 7/12/2023 Recovering From Infidelity Pain: Are They Lying About ‘Why’? 6/28/2023 Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?' 6/21/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise? 6/16/2023 Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family? 6/16/2023 Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know? 6/14/2023 Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 6/07/2023 Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain? 5/19/2023 When to Save a Marriage After Infidelity 5/03/2023 Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do? 5/02/2023 Q&A How Do I Get past the Shame and Hurt? 5/02/2023 Your Brain on Porn and Understanding the Sex Addict 4/26/2023 Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner? 4/20/2023 Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him? 4/12/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way for Us to Utilize EMS Online since We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 4/12/2023 Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse? 4/12/2023 Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed? 4/12/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse’s Siblings? 3/17/2023 Q&A Do We Have a Chance at Recovery If He Is Unable to Understand How Trauma Can Impact Me? 3/17/2023 Q&A How Do Social Engagement and Our Nervous Systems Work Together? 3/02/2023 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate That I’m Not Talking to the Affair Partner? 3/02/2023 Q&A What Action Do You Recommend If My Mates Behavior Doesn’t Change? 3/02/2023 Q&A How Do We Handle Pregnancy So Close to Discovery? 2/17/2023 Q&A How Do I Explain Disassociation and It’s Part in the Affair? 1/26/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Weaponizing Information That I’m Sharing with Them? 1/11/2023 Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 1/11/2023 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022 Q&A Is It Productive to Healing and Reconciliation for the Unfaithful to Withhold Sex? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can We Get Anywhere If a Calm Conversation Can’t Happen about His Recovery or Betrayals? 12/06/2022 Q&A Why Would You Have a Group of People Trying to Recover from Infidelity Being Led by a Single Female Who Is Divorced? 12/06/2022 Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022 Healing After the Affair: Whether or Not to Get Help 11/23/2022 Q&A Any Advice on How, When & Where It’s Best to Share Our Story? 11/03/2022 The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022 Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Work through the Deception Regarding the Infidelity? 10/13/2022 Q&A What Kind of Professional Help Should I Seek? 10/13/2022 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022 Q&A What Can We Do Differently? 9/13/2022 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are? 8/26/2022 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 8/10/2022 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
