Safety in Recovery

The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.

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Video icon Q&A I Am Trying to Be Safe for My Wife, but How Can I Feel Safe from Her?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Work to Create an Environment Where My Wayward Spouse Feels Safe?
Video icon Q&A Is It Okay to Have Sex with My Mate under These Circumstances?
Video icon Q&A What Can We Do When My Husband’s Only True Confidant Is a Serious Trigger for Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Be Authentic and Safe with My Emotions during Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Address My Spouse's Flirtatious Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A Are Walls Instead of Boundaries Necessary for a Season?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Become Safe for Someone Who Is Unsafe for Me?
Video icon Q&A Is There Hope of Healing without Relapse along the Way?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Reach Honesty without Creating Triggers?
Video icon Q&A Is This Gaslighting? If So, How Do I Respond?
Video icon Q&A Can I Heal If My Husband Is Not Completely Safe?
Video icon Q&A What Is the True Meaning of ‘Being Safe’ for the Injured Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say?
Video icon Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking?
Video icon Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This?
Video icon Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave?
Video icon Q&A Why Wasn't My Husband Honest with Me?
Video icon Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over?
Video icon Q&A Do I Continue to Be Friends?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Create Safety in the Workplace?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Differentiate between What Secrets Are Safe to Keep and Which Should Be Shared?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth?
Video icon Q&A What Does Consensual Sex Look like in Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Do You Have Advice for Safely Reaching Full Disclosure without a Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Isn't Willing to Get Help?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Move Forward in a Healthy and Safe Way?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Push Forward in Recovery When I Feel That My Mate Isn't Trust Worthy?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Feel Safe after My Mates Relapse?
Video icon Q&A Should We Continue with the Course Work in Spite of Relapse?
Video icon Q&A Can My Mate Ever Be Safe Again?
Video icon Q&A Is This an Acceptable Behavior for the Recovery Process?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Extend Grace to My Wayward Husband
Text icon Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies
Text icon Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness
Video icon Q&A Why Can't My Mate Be Honest?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get the Safety I Need in Our Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle a Relapse in the Middle of Recovery?
Text icon Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment
Video icon Q&A What More Can We Do to Set Boundaries with Family Members?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect Myself While Working Towards Healing?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do If My Wife Still Wants to Spend Time with Her Accomplice in Her Affair?
Video icon Q&A At What Point Should We Get a Restraining Order for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Be Vulnerable If My Mate Has Only Committed to One Year of Healing?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Move Forward with This Lack of Trust?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Handle My Husband's Lack of Transparency?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Feel Safe through All of This?