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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can We Help Our Son's Struggles in This Aftermath of Infidelity?	6/28/2017
	Q&A Why Am I So Troubled by the Sexual Aspect of the Affair?	6/28/2017
	Q&A Am I Crazy for Not Wanting My Husband to Be around His Affair Partner?	6/28/2017
	Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and What Does It Mean for a Relationship in Recovery?	6/28/2017
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel I Can’t Get Past His Infidelity?	6/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With the Unending Lies?	6/28/2017
	Q&A Will My Fantasy Dreams End?	6/28/2017
	Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship?	6/28/2017
	Q&A What Do I Do Now to Cope and Heal from His past History?	6/21/2017
	Q&A Once a Person Cheats, Are They More Likely to Cheat Again?	6/21/2017
	Q&A What Is a D-Day Anniversary Like for the Unfaithful?	6/21/2017
	Q&A He Says I'm 50% Responsible for His Affair. Is That a Sign of Denial?	6/21/2017
	Q&A Should We Divorce Because We Can't Respect Each Other's Feelings?	6/21/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Bitterness and Anger Coming Back after Giving Birth?	6/21/2017
	Q&A How Do We Move Safely from Here in the Presence of a Restraining Order?	6/21/2017
	Q&A Why Do the Betrayed Have to Be a Part of the Unfaithful’s Detox?	6/21/2017
	Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses?	6/21/2017
	Q&A What Does Consent to Sex Look Like in Marriage?	6/21/2017
	Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed Spouses of the Unfaithful Partners Get Together?	6/21/2017
	Q&A Aren’t Betrayal and Love Incompatible?	6/21/2017
	Q&A How Can I Heal from the Dishonor of His Sharing My Secrets with Her?	6/21/2017
	Q&A Is There Hope for Change?	6/21/2017
	Q&A What Can We Expect from EMS Online?	6/07/2017
	Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Really Changing?	6/07/2017
	Q&A Why Does He Say He Wants to Save the Marriage?	6/07/2017
	Q&A What Should We Discuss When We Check-In with Each Other?	6/07/2017
	Q&A How Do I Help Her with the Anniversary?	6/07/2017
	Q&A Is This All Part of the Process or Is It Something Else?	6/07/2017
	Q&A Should We Throw in the Towel before Things Get Worse?	6/07/2017
	Q&A Forgiveness and Infidelity	6/07/2017
	Q&A What Happens When I Don't Want to Have Sex as Often as My Mate?	6/07/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle Recovery When We Are Both the Betrayed and the Unfaithful?	6/07/2017
	Q&A Letting Go: Explain the Task of Rewriting History	5/26/2017
	Q&A What Does a Betrayed Spouse Do When the Unfaithful Spouse Leaves?	5/26/2017
	Q&A What Do We Tell Our Kids regarding the Infidelities?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Do I Heal without the Details of My Wife's Affair?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Should I Handle the Anniversary Dates of the Affair?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Do We Disclose the Separation and Reasons behind It?	5/26/2017
	Q&A What Do I Do about My Spouse Refusing to See His Affair Partner Negatively?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Should I Continue Forward or Wait until He Wants to Recommit to Us?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Important Is It for My Husband to Choose Me versus Need Me?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Will I Know If He Truly Is Happy?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Should I Continue to Verify My Spouse's Honesty?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Do I Stay in the Process of Forgiveness?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Overcome Ambivalence and Make a Decision?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Is My Wife Safe?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Can You Speak to Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Would a Separation Be Appropriate or Beneficial for Me to Get Healing?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Can My Deceitful and Unfaithful Spouse Really Change?	5/24/2017