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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	The Fight to Forgive	8/30/2023
	A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure	8/16/2023
	Q&A How Can I Even Buckle Down and Finish EMS Online Knowing That Essentially I Was Discarded?	8/15/2023
	Q&A What Would Be Best for His Healing and Our Reconciliation?	8/15/2023
	Q&A How Do You Begin to Sift through the Wreckage after an Affair and Determine the Value of What Was Lost?	8/15/2023
	Q&A What Is the Best Way to Set Boundaries in the Workplace?	8/15/2023
	Q&A Is It Possible to Not Love or Miss Someone after a 3-Year Affair?	8/15/2023
	Q&A Are the Boundaries My Mate Has Placed on Our Conversations a Red Flag in Recovery?	8/15/2023
	Q&A What If I Question Whether I Want to Be Married or Not?	8/15/2023
	Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure?	8/15/2023
	Q&A At This Point I Just Rather Not Have Sex at All. Is There Something That I Can Do to Change This?	8/15/2023
	My Spouse Had an Affair: What Should I Do Now?	8/09/2023
	How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity?	7/19/2023
	Is Ambivalence Common When Healing from Infidelity?	7/19/2023
	Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery	7/12/2023
	Q&A Should My Husband Contact the Affair Partner to Break Things off If They Haven’t Had Contact in Almost a Year?	6/29/2023
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner?	6/29/2023
	Q&A How Do We Navigate Seeing the Emotional Part of the Affair Differently?	6/29/2023
	Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There?	6/29/2023
	Recovering From Infidelity Pain: Are They Lying About ‘Why’?	6/28/2023
	Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?'	6/21/2023
	Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise?	6/16/2023
	Q&A How Can I Continue to Be Empathetic to Her If in Spite of All I Do, It Is Still Not Enough?	6/16/2023
	Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work?	6/16/2023
	Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives?	6/16/2023
	Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty?	6/16/2023
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family?	6/16/2023
	Q&A How Did ADHD and Other Factors Like Depression and Anxiety Contribute to My Affairs?	6/16/2023
	Q&A How Do I Move past Something I Love Being Shared with the Affair Partner?	6/16/2023
	Q&A Can You Elaborate More on Type Four Affairs?	6/16/2023
	Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know?	6/14/2023
	Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair	6/07/2023
	How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling)	5/24/2023
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain?	5/19/2023
	Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds?	5/19/2023
	Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth?	5/19/2023
	Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted?	5/19/2023
	Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity?	5/19/2023
	Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal?	5/19/2023
	Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing?	5/19/2023
	Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate?	5/19/2023
	What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity?	5/10/2023
	When to Save a Marriage After Infidelity	5/03/2023
	Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend?	5/02/2023
	Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do?	5/02/2023
	Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did?	5/02/2023
	Q&A How Do I Get past the Shame and Hurt?	5/02/2023
	Q&A What Do I Do When My Spouse Is Making Me Choose between Her and My Faith?	5/02/2023
	Q&A How Does One Find a Reputable and Affordable Polygraph Test Provider?	5/02/2023
	Q&A Is My Mate’s Inability to Experience Emotions Due to Deep Trauma or Something More Problematic?	5/02/2023