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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Not Know 'Why' This Far in Recovery?	9/24/2020
	Q&A Should My Husband Find Another Job to Protect Himself from Relapse?	9/24/2020
	Q&A Is It Wrong to Avoid Contact with In-Laws since My Wayward Husband Villainized Me to Them?	9/24/2020
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward and Continue with Recovery?	9/24/2020
	Q&A What Attracts a Younger Man to an Older, Unattractive Woman?	9/24/2020
	Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Unfaithful	9/23/2020
	Q&A Does Anyone Know the Name of What My Spouse Does to Keep from Answering a Question with the Truth?	9/22/2020
	Q&A Is Soliciting Prostitutes Always Due to an Addiction?	9/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Turn off Rumination without Getting Validation from My Husband?	9/22/2020
	Q&A How Do You Handle Ambivalence without Being Co-Dependent?	9/22/2020
	Q&A Is There a Way to Determine the Difference between an Affair Being Motivated by Revenge as Opposed to the Wayward Spouse Justifying an Affair or Are They One in the Same?	9/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Begin to Deal with This Being True?	9/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Get over the Constant Reminder and Trigger?	9/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Find a Happy Medium Where I Can Learn to Be Myself Again, While Still Connecting with Him and Learning to Trust Him Again?	9/22/2020
	Q&A Is It Common to Loose Feelings for Your Wayward Spouse?	9/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Heal from the Damage of the Internet?	9/22/2020
	Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Betrayed	9/16/2020
	Q&A How Do I Recover from My Anger Resulting from an Unhealthy Recovery Process?	9/10/2020
	Q&A Would We Be Wrong to Cut off a Child Born as a Result of the Affair to Save Our Marriage?	9/10/2020
	Q&A Why Isn't There Acknowledgement That Infidelity Is a Form of Abuse?	9/10/2020
	Q&A Will I Ever See My Husband as ‘Mine’ Again?	9/03/2020
	Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner?	9/03/2020
	Q&A How Can These Memories Be Recovered?	9/03/2020
	Q&A Should the Wayward Spouse Contact the Affair Partner When an STD Has Been Diagnosed?	9/03/2020
	Q&A My Wife Is Considering a Revenge Affair. What Should I Do?	9/03/2020
	Q&A How Do I Get to the Truth?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Will the Same Debilitating Pain Continue to Happen over the Years?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Do I Give up This Need That Is Always in the Back of My Mind?	9/02/2020
	Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Communicate to My Spouse That Their Behavior Is Not Acceptable?	9/02/2020
	Q&A What Guidelines Can I Share for Friends or Family Who Are Trying to Be Supportive?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Can Any Person Not Know Why They Have Done Something?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Is There a Time to Reconcile with Friends Involved in the Affair?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Do I Process My Husband's Behavior While We Were Divorced?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Should I Be Working on Being Strong Enough to Leave?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Can You Please Give Me Some More Information on a Written Disclosure?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Is It Possible to Compartmentalize the Way My Husband Did?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Long Do I Put up with My Wife's Ambivalence?	9/02/2020
	Q&A What Can I Do If I Now Have Too Much Detail?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Can We Make the Pictures Disappear?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Do We Get past Both Betrayals?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Do You Deal with Your Own Parents and Siblings Not Supporting Your Reconciliation?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Do I Get past Him Having Sex with Another Person?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Could His Early Experience Have Played a Part in His Affair and His Attitude Toward Sex Now?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Husband Still Cannot Recommit to the Marriage?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Should I Spend the Last Best Years of My Life Married, Surviving Infidelity, or Divorced?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Would It Be Harmful to Ask If, and for How Long, There May Have Been Flashbacks or Memories of a Physical Affair?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Long Is Too Long for Grieving?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Comfort the Wayward Spouse?	8/27/2020
	Q&A How Do I Deal with This New Information That I Apparently Am Incompatible with Her Now?	8/27/2020
	Q&A Am I Overreacting or Is My Husband Not Taking Responsibility?	8/27/2020