Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Power of Small Groups Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 3939 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I Can Sexually Re-Engage with My Mate? 2/07/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t See the Truth? 2/07/2018 Q&A Is My Sex Drive Normal? 2/07/2018 Q&A Can Hope Keep You Stuck in a Toxic Relationship? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Find Hope and Redemption in Divorce? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Can I Keep Myself Safe in This Situation? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Can We Heal without a Shared History? 1/31/2018 Q&A My Spouse Wants a Revenge Affair, What Do I Do? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Does My Mate Turn Their Life Around? 1/31/2018 Q&A Is Wanting to Have Make-Up Sex after an Intense Fight Normal? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Physical Pain of Not Ejaculating? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Support My Mates Grieving Process? 1/31/2018 Q&A I Think I'm Done... 1/31/2018 Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again? 1/31/2018 Q&A Did I Go too Far? 1/31/2018 Q&A Is It Possible to Have Closure and, If So, What Does That Look Like? 1/23/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned If My Mate Denies His Feelings? 1/23/2018 Q&A At What Point Is the Marriage So Broken, That There's No Hope of Recovery? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do We Start over without Reviewing the Past? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Criticizing My Attempts to Become Independent? 1/23/2018 Q&A Is My Mate Safe for Reconciliation? 1/23/2018 Q&A When Does It Get Better? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do You Reclaim the Losses from the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A Should I Separate from My Mate? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Long Does It Take to Come out of Limerence? 1/23/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Need to Be in Place When Traveling? 1/23/2018 Q&A Should I Consider Another Separation? 1/23/2018 Q&A I Feel Wrung out, How Do I Move Forward? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are There Affairs That Aren't Limerent Affairs? 1/23/2018 Q&A If My Mate has Lied about the past, Will They Lie about the Present and Future? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Big of a Part Did Alcohol Play in All of This? 1/23/2018 Q&A Why Is His Perspective of Us and of Love Getting Worse? 1/23/2018 Q&A What Do You Suggest When the Unfaithful Spouse Seems Numb? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'? 1/23/2018 Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get over What I Don't Know? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do You 'Feel' Emotions without Letting Them Control You? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Do We Choose to Stay with Someone Who Has Wounded Us So Deeply? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Do I Feel The Way That I Do? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do Addictions Play into That Sequence of Recovery? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Think about the Affair Partner? 1/22/2018 Q&A Are There Any Tools or Strategies to Help Overcome The ‘Addiction’ of the AP? 1/22/2018 Q&A Do I File for Divorce to Protect Myself and Possibly Wake Her Up? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Is the Unfaithful Trying to Take Advantage? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome Being Repulsed by My Husband? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do We Re-establish a Sexual Relationship? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Long Does It Take the Unfaithful to Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Do I Do When There Are No Actions behind the Words? 1/22/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Should I Do?” 1/22/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…464748495051525354…next ›last »