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	Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall	10/19/2026
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026

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	Q&A Is There A Connection Between Sex Addiction and Limerence?	10/22/2026
	Q&A What's The Point in Continuing to Dig to 'Find Out What Happened' When I've Already Given Full Disclosure?	10/22/2026
	Q&A I'm Doing All I Can to Remain Safe, Grounded, & Healthy - Why Am I Being Blamed for Their Insecurity?	10/22/2026
	Q&A Am I Emotionally Ruined for Good, Or Can This Change Over Time?	10/22/2026
	Q&A How Do I Lead My Children Through This if the Marriage Doesn't Make It?	10/22/2026

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4640 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Long Will It Take for My Husband to Retrain His Thinking?	9/13/2019
	Q&A How Can I Overcome My Negative Feelings Towards Family Members?	9/13/2019
	Q&A How Can We Create Safety and Follow-Through with Boundaries?	9/13/2019
	Q&A What Do You Do When the Infidelity Involves Family Members?	9/13/2019
	Q&A What Do His Boundary Violations Mean?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me Because I Still Love in Spite of All This?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Can You Explain the Benefits of an In-House Separation?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Should the Betrayed Spouse Inform the Affair Partners Spouse of the Affair?	9/11/2019
	Q&A What Boundaries Are Appropriate in Recovery?	9/11/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Any Advice for the Spouse of Someone Who's Been Autonomous for Nearly 20 Years in Addition to Being Passive Aggressive?	9/11/2019
	Q&A Why Is My Spouse Having a Difficult Time with Empathy When I'm Hurting?	9/11/2019
	Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Such a Difficult Time Letting Go of the Affair Partner?	9/11/2019
	Q&A How Do We Get Our Strong Emotional Connection Back?	9/11/2019
	Q&A How Do I Know If I'm Making the Right Choice?	9/11/2019
	Q&A Should We Stop the Trickle Effect of Disclosure?	9/04/2019
	Q&A How Do I Heal When I Am Always in Fight or Flight Mode?	9/04/2019
	Q&A How Can I Accept What My Mate Is Telling Me?	9/04/2019
	Q&A Why Can't My Spouse See How They Could've Prevented Their Affair?	9/04/2019
	Q&A How Long Will It Take for Feelings for the Affair Partner to Disappear?	9/04/2019
	Q&A Are the Gottmans Encouraging Infidelity?	9/04/2019
	Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse?	9/04/2019
	Q&A How Do I Protect My Children through All of This?	8/28/2019
	Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Covert Narcissism?	8/28/2019
	Q&A What Is a Normal Reaction from the Wayward When Discovering Infidelity?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Continued Obsessive Thoughts about the Affair Partner?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Could My Wife Feel so Connected with the Affair Partner and Not Think the Sex Was Better with Them?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Why Do I Do about My Thoughts during Sex?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get past My Own Shame and Guilt?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Is an Addict?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Is This Not about Me?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Know When to Stand up and Say Enough Is Enough?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Much Does Childhood Abandonment Affect Recovery from Infidelity?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get past My Husband's Recreated Fantasy about a High School Girlfriend?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Would This Level of Detail Hurt Our Recovery Process?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Is Her Disgust about the Affair a Sign That the Limerence Is Disappearing?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Can I Know If What I Experienced with the Affair Partner Was Love, Limerence, or Love Addiction?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Should the Wayward Spouse Respond to New Discoveries by the Betrayed Spouse?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Does It Matter If He Says It Was Love & I Say It Was Limerance?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Wayward Spouse Continues to Contact the Affair Partner?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Did I Try to Recover to Quickly?	8/28/2019
	Q&A What Does True Recovery Work and Change Look Like?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible to Restore the Marriage If the Wayward Spouse Wants Divorce?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Can You Further Explain the Deceived-Self and the True-Self?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Should We Wait for the Limerence to Subside before Seeking More Restoration?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Can You Clarify the Statement, ‘My Mate Is Not the Problem, My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me’?	8/23/2019
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward and Heal?	8/23/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible for My Wayward Spouse to Accept Unconditional Love?	8/23/2019
	Q&A Is There Still Hope for Our Marriage?	8/23/2019
	Q&A How Can I Convince My Spouse That I've Disclosed All of the Details?	8/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Open up about Their Affair?	8/23/2019