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Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery
Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling)
How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity
How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons
Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair
4838 Resources
Type Title Posted
Text The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 9/14/2022
Video Q&A Is Listening to Audiobooks That Are Sexually Explicit Considered Porn? 9/13/2022
Video Q&A How Can an Unfaithful Spouse Develop Emotional Intelligence? 9/13/2022
Video Q&A What Can We Do Differently? 9/13/2022
Text Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/07/2022
Text Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 8/31/2022
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are? 8/26/2022
Video Q&A Is It Possible for Spouses to Have Emotional Affairs With Same Sex Best Friends? 8/26/2022
Video Q&A Is This an Appropriate Deal-Breaker? 8/26/2022
Video Q&A How Do We Heal from Sexual Abuse in Our Marriage? 8/26/2022
Text The Fantasyland of an Affair 8/24/2022
Text Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022
Text Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 8/10/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A Is This a Healthy Way to Process My Anger? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A Should I Get Breast Implants to Please My Husband? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him? 8/03/2022
Text Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 8/03/2022
Text Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive? 7/27/2022
Text Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 7/20/2022
Text What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? 7/07/2022
Text Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022
Video Q&A Are My Expectations to High? What Should He Be Doing to Reinforce That Love and Value of Me? 7/01/2022
Video Q&A Am I Just Playing the Victim to Reduce My Guilt? 7/01/2022
Video Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work? 7/01/2022
Text Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat 6/29/2022
Video How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence? 6/22/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022
Video Q&A How Do My Wife and I Avoid Pretending Normal and Actually Tackle the Issue of Infidelity? 6/14/2022
Video Q&A How Can I Be Comfortable Being Intimate Again? 6/14/2022
Video Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph? 6/14/2022
Video Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Want Me to Obey Him after His Affair? 6/14/2022
Video Q&A How Do We Give This a Shot If We Don’t Reengage on Some Level? 6/14/2022
Video Q&A Could It Be Limerance When the Affair Partner Is an Old Flame? 6/14/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Respond to the Betrayed’s Triggers When It’s Affecting My Mental Health Now? 6/14/2022
Video Q&A Am I Depriving Myself of True Healing in the Long Term If We Are Using This Method to Cope? 6/14/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022
Video Q&A How Do You Know If You Are Grieving or If You Are Wallowing? 5/24/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Handle Knowing the ‘Who’ Matters More to Me than the ‘What’? 5/24/2022
Video Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade? 5/24/2022
Video Q&A How Can I Channel My Own Genuine Positivity and Stop Being Concerned or Insulted by His Behaviors or Attitudes? 5/24/2022
Video Q&A Where Does a Failed Polygraph Leave Us in Regards to a Timeline in Recovery? 5/24/2022
Video Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner? 5/24/2022
Video Q&A Can You Help Us Understand Our Love Language Differences? 5/24/2022

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