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Founder of AA, did to His Wife? 11/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Handle Being Triggered by the Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Stop Thinking About Seeking Justice With the Affair Partners? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Break Down My Walls and Be Intimate Again? 9/07/2016 Q&A How Can We Move Past My Reaction to Triggering Images? 8/24/2016 Q&A What Can I Do Now That I Feel it's No Longer a Real Marriage? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Do We Create a New Pattern and Move Past the Shame? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Settle These Questions in My Mind? 8/24/2016 Pages« first‹ previous12345678next ›last »