Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A Can His Expressed Feelings of Love Be True When He Was Deceiving and Betraying Me?
Video icon Q&A How Much Should I Allow My Hurt Spouse to Vent and Control Conversations?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Ask My Spouse to Do That Also Requires the Same Amount of Effort in the Process of Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Make a Symbolic Sacrifice to Help My Healing?
Video icon Q&A What Type of Dilemma Am I In?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Wife with Her Depression That Has Escalated Dramatically since Discovery?
Video icon Q&A Is He Sincere?
Video icon Q&A What Practical Steps Can I Take To Help Me Overcome the Overwhelming Moments in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Not Only Acknowledge the Humiliation upon Our Family and Me, but Also to Fix the Amount of Humiliation He’s Placed on Our Family to Our Town?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal With These Graphics Thoughts?
Video icon Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Go Back to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Did I Do the Right Thing by Sharing My Trigger and How Do I Handle This Situation in the Future?
Video icon Q&A Should I Continue EMS Online on My Own?
Video icon Q&A When Does Trauma Turn Into PTSD and Grief Turn Into Depression?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Make Progress and How Can I Trust Him?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Husband Deleting Messages to His Mother before I See Them?
Video icon Q&A Is It Appropriate to Try Separating While Also Helping the Betrayed Spouse Heal?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do about a Sex Tape That My Spouse Made with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move On When I Feel like He’s Lying about What Really Happened?
Video icon Q&A What Progressional Steps Are Most Helpful in Recovery from Pornography Addiction and Extramarital Affairs?
Video icon Q&A Should I do EMDR or Harboring Hope First?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Role of Dopamine in Marital Sex?
Video icon Q&A Can You Provide Clarification on Not Asking Relational Comparison Questions?
Video icon Q&A Where Do I Go After EMS Online?
Video icon Q&A Should I Let Him Go?
Video icon Q&A How Could He Go from Begging Me to Stay to This?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible That the Shame Is Creating a Barrier to Empathy?
Video icon Q&A Why Does This Hurt Me?
Video icon Q&A My Husband Is Still Pursuing His Affair Partner after 13 Months and Is Refusing Any Work. Is There Hope?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle This Conflict between What He’s Saying and What He’s Doing?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal With This When I Cannot Reasonably Ask Her to Quit Working nor Can I Check In Frequently to Make Sure It's Not Happening Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Other Counselor’s ‘Okaying’ My Husband’s Continuation of His Rock-Concert Gigs?
Video icon Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Wife about the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do Handle My Wife Having a Same-Sex Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Behave around My Family When My Sister Is the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Does My Husband’s Behavior Qualify as Sexual Addiction?
Video icon Q&A How Do My Spouse and I Get On the Same Level When It Comes to Appropriate Communication to His Affair Partner about Their Daughter?
Video icon Q&A Do You Recommend Joining Harboring Hope or Hope For Healing after Completing EMS Online?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Feel Good about Myself Again after What Has Happened?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Want a Better Marriage in the Future When I Didn't Think It Was Bad in the First Place?
Video icon Q&A Can You Explain Personal Responsibility in Regards to Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Put a Little Light On Where I Am Stuck?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Now Be the Bad Guy?
Video icon Q&A Do You Advise Me to Have a Session with My Psychologist, Family, And Friends to Discuss the Things He Has Said About Me?
Video icon Q&A Should I Share the Date I Have Set For Making a Decision with My Husband?
Video icon Q&A Is Keeping Him from Moving Home Making Things Worse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Healing and My Husband?
Video icon Q&A Why Did My Husband Have Such a Seemingly Lame Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is Location-Sharing and Access to Phones Recommended?