Q&A What Do I Do When the Betrayed Spouse Shuts Me Out and Doesn’t Want to Talk about His Pain, Unless Forced? 1/18/2022
Q&A Are My Expectations Too High? 12/17/2021
Q&A What Do We Do When the Affair Partner Refuses to Cooperate about the Child? 12/17/2021
Q&A How Can We Set Boundaries If They Keep Being Disregarded and Violated? 12/17/2021
Q&A Should I Change Churches or Should I Just Get Over It since It Was All in His Fantasies? 12/17/2021
Q&A What Should I Do With the Saved Messages between My Husband and His Affair Partners? 12/17/2021
Q&A Why Is He Okay as Long as I Don’t Talk about It? How Can We Get past This If He’s Unwilling to Answer Questions? 12/17/2021
Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand the Importance of Knowing the ‘Why’ and Also How to Can I Help Him See That It’s Not an Excuse or Blaming Anything? 12/17/2021
Q&A Should We Abstain from Sex at This Point in Our Recovery? 12/17/2021
Q&A At What Point Is It Unhealthy to Be Avoiding Events Because the Affair Partner May Go or Avoiding Places Because They Once Went There Together? 12/17/2021
Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Playing the Victim in Our Relationship? 11/19/2021
Q&A Can His Expressed Feelings of Love Be True When He Was Deceiving and Betraying Me? 11/19/2021
Q&A How Much Should I Allow My Hurt Spouse to Vent and Control Conversations? 11/19/2021
Q&A What Can I Ask My Spouse to Do That Also Requires the Same Amount of Effort in the Process of Recovery? 11/19/2021
Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Make a Symbolic Sacrifice to Help My Healing? 11/04/2021
Q&A What Type of Dilemma Am I In? 11/04/2021
Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Wife with Her Depression That Has Escalated Dramatically since Discovery? 11/04/2021
Q&A Is He Sincere? 10/07/2021
Q&A What Practical Steps Can I Take To Help Me Overcome the Overwhelming Moments in Recovery? 10/07/2021
Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Not Only Acknowledge the Humiliation upon Our Family and Me, but Also to Fix the Amount of Humiliation He’s Placed on Our Family to Our Town? 10/07/2021
Q&A How Do I Deal With These Graphics Thoughts? 10/07/2021
Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Go Back to the Affair Partner? 10/07/2021
Q&A Did I Do the Right Thing by Sharing My Trigger and How Do I Handle This Situation in the Future? 10/07/2021
Q&A Should I Continue EMS Online on My Own? 10/07/2021
Q&A When Does Trauma Turn Into PTSD and Grief Turn Into Depression? 10/07/2021
Q&A How Can We Make Progress and How Can I Trust Him? 10/07/2021
Q&A Why Is My Husband Deleting Messages to His Mother before I See Them? 10/07/2021
Q&A Is It Appropriate to Try Separating While Also Helping the Betrayed Spouse Heal? 9/08/2021
Q&A What Do I Do about a Sex Tape That My Spouse Made with the Affair Partner? 9/08/2021
Q&A How Do I Move On When I Feel like He’s Lying about What Really Happened? 9/08/2021
Q&A What Progressional Steps Are Most Helpful in Recovery from Pornography Addiction and Extramarital Affairs? 9/08/2021
Q&A Should I do EMDR or Harboring Hope First? 9/08/2021
Q&A What Is the Role of Dopamine in Marital Sex? 9/08/2021
Q&A Can You Provide Clarification on Not Asking Relational Comparison Questions? 9/08/2021
Q&A Where Do I Go After EMS Online? 8/17/2021
Q&A Should I Let Him Go? 8/17/2021
Q&A How Could He Go from Begging Me to Stay to This? 8/17/2021
Q&A Is It Possible That the Shame Is Creating a Barrier to Empathy? 8/17/2021
Q&A Why Does This Hurt Me? 8/17/2021
Q&A My Husband Is Still Pursuing His Affair Partner after 13 Months and Is Refusing Any Work. Is There Hope? 8/17/2021
Q&A How Do I Handle This Conflict between What He’s Saying and What He’s Doing? 8/17/2021
Q&A How Do I Deal With This When I Cannot Reasonably Ask Her to Quit Working nor Can I Check In Frequently to Make Sure It's Not Happening Again? 8/17/2021
Q&A How Do I Handle Other Counselor’s ‘Okaying’ My Husband’s Continuation of His Rock-Concert Gigs? 8/17/2021
Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Wife about the Affair? 8/17/2021
Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021
Q&A How Do Handle My Wife Having a Same-Sex Affair? 8/02/2021
Q&A How Do I Behave around My Family When My Sister Is the Affair Partner? 8/02/2021
Q&A Does My Husband’s Behavior Qualify as Sexual Addiction? 8/02/2021
Q&A How Do My Spouse and I Get On the Same Level When It Comes to Appropriate Communication to His Affair Partner about Their Daughter? 8/02/2021
Q&A Do You Recommend Joining Harboring Hope or Hope For Healing after Completing EMS Online? 7/22/2021
