Q&A How Do Others Cope with No Answers or Resolutions?
7/23/2025
Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward?
7/23/2025
Q&A How Do You Recommend We Handle Interactions with the Affair Partner?
7/23/2025
Q&A How Does He Not Have Deep Residual Feelings for the Affair Partner?
7/23/2025
Q&A How Do We Dismantle the Wall Hindering My Wayward Spouse from Expressing Sorrow, Remorse, and Empathy?
7/23/2025
Q&A I Want My Mate to Apologize. Is It Okay to Tell Him the Things He Has Done That Have Hurt Me?
7/21/2025
Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable?
7/21/2025
Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship?
7/09/2025
Q&A Can You Please Give Some Direction on the Various Courses and the Best Way to Go Through Them?
7/02/2025
Q&A What Would Put Me Back Into Integrity as a Betrayed Spouse?
7/02/2025
Q&A Why Is My Husband Blaming Me for His Affair?
7/02/2025
Q&A How Do I Talk About My Stupidity in a Redemptive Way, While I’m Still Struggling Through My Heart Change?
7/02/2025
Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair?
6/18/2025
Q&A How Can I Forgive the Affair Partner When She Is Still Impacting My Life So Negatively?
6/18/2025
Q&A How Do I Respond If I Feel the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Be with Me?
6/18/2025
Q&A How Can I Get Past This Feeling of Never Being Her Choice When She Had Freedom to Choose?
6/12/2025
Q&A Do I Take Action Against the Affair Partner or Just Letting It Go?
6/12/2025
Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner?
5/28/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing or Blending Two Different Attachment Styles?
5/28/2025
Q&A How Do I Heal from the Race of the Affair Partner Being a Trigger?
5/28/2025
Q&A Is There Any Hope That My Husband Will Change?
5/28/2025
Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner?
5/14/2025
Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Using Parental Control Apps to Create Safety and Rebuild Trust?
5/06/2025
Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself?
5/06/2025
Q&A Do You Have Experience with BPD Affairs?
5/06/2025
Q&A When Do I Throw in the Towel?
4/23/2025
Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner?
4/23/2025
Q&A How Do We Move past This Set-Back in Our Recovery?
4/16/2025
Q&A Why Do I Get Aroused Imagining the Sexual Acts My Wife Did with Her Affair Partner?
4/16/2025
Q&A How Long Will It Take for Him to Get Over His Feelings Towards Her and the Fantasy of the Affair?
4/09/2025
Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage?
4/09/2025
Q&A How Do We Restore the Relationship with Our Adult Children?
4/09/2025
Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Gather Evidence in Order to Move On from This?
4/09/2025
Q&A Is There a Way to Reconnect or Get Him to Engage Before Throwing 35 Years Away?
4/09/2025
Q&A When My Mate Accuses Me of Being a Narcissist Are They Really Recognizing Traits Within Themselves?
4/09/2025
Q&A When Will the Abusive Language and Name-Calling from the Betrayed Spouse Stop?
4/02/2025
Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Really Shut the Door on the Affair Partner?
4/02/2025
Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening?
4/02/2025
Q&A When Will My Efforts Be Enough for My Spouse?
4/02/2025
Q&A How Should I Respond When He Shares Lies with Me, Especially If I Perceive He Is Sugar-Coating the Truth?
4/01/2025
Q&A How Do I Find a Way to Show Compassion or Empathy When I Find Myself Empty of It in the Moment?
4/01/2025
Q&A Can You Shed Light on Pass/Fail Outcomes and Eye-Scan Polygraph Tests?
4/01/2025
Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment?
4/01/2025
Q&A How Can We Best Deal With This Hurtful Possibility and Begin to Heal from It?
4/01/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Apologizing to the Affair Partner’s Spouse?
3/26/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse?
3/26/2025
Q&A How Could He Possibly Call What He Had with the Affair Partner ‘Love'?
3/26/2025
Q&A Can You Give Me Insight on What Therapy Modalities Would Be Best for Me?
3/11/2025
Q&A Do You Recommend We Continue Living Separately During Recovery?
3/11/2025
Q&A Who Falls in True Love with an Affair Partner?
3/11/2025