Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A How Do Others Cope with No Answers or Resolutions?
Video icon Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Recommend We Handle Interactions with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Does He Not Have Deep Residual Feelings for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Dismantle the Wall Hindering My Wayward Spouse from Expressing Sorrow, Remorse, and Empathy?
Video icon Q&A I Want My Mate to Apologize. Is It Okay to Tell Him the Things He Has Done That Have Hurt Me?
Video icon Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship?
Video icon Q&A Can You Please Give Some Direction on the Various Courses and the Best Way to Go Through Them?
Video icon Q&A What Would Put Me Back Into Integrity as a Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Husband Blaming Me for His Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Talk About My Stupidity in a Redemptive Way, While I’m Still Struggling Through My Heart Change?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Forgive the Affair Partner When She Is Still Impacting My Life So Negatively?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond If I Feel the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Be with Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get Past This Feeling of Never Being Her Choice When She Had Freedom to Choose?
Video icon Q&A Do I Take Action Against the Affair Partner or Just Letting It Go?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing or Blending Two Different Attachment Styles?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from the Race of the Affair Partner Being a Trigger?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Hope That My Husband Will Change?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Using Parental Control Apps to Create Safety and Rebuild Trust?
Video icon Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself?
Video icon Q&A Do You Have Experience with BPD Affairs?
Video icon Q&A When Do I Throw in the Towel?
Video icon Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move past This Set-Back in Our Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Get Aroused Imagining the Sexual Acts My Wife Did with Her Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Long Will It Take for Him to Get Over His Feelings Towards Her and the Fantasy of the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Restore the Relationship with Our Adult Children?
Video icon Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Gather Evidence in Order to Move On from This?
Video icon Q&A Is There a Way to Reconnect or Get Him to Engage Before Throwing 35 Years Away?
Video icon Q&A When My Mate Accuses Me of Being a Narcissist Are They Really Recognizing Traits Within Themselves?
Video icon Q&A When Will the Abusive Language and Name-Calling from the Betrayed Spouse Stop?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Really Shut the Door on the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening?
Video icon Q&A When Will My Efforts Be Enough for My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Respond When He Shares Lies with Me, Especially If I Perceive He Is Sugar-Coating the Truth?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Find a Way to Show Compassion or Empathy When I Find Myself Empty of It in the Moment?
Video icon Q&A Can You Shed Light on Pass/Fail Outcomes and Eye-Scan Polygraph Tests?
Video icon Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Best Deal With This Hurtful Possibility and Begin to Heal from It?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Apologizing to the Affair Partner’s Spouse?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Could He Possibly Call What He Had with the Affair Partner ‘Love'?
Video icon Q&A Can You Give Me Insight on What Therapy Modalities Would Be Best for Me?
Video icon Q&A Do You Recommend We Continue Living Separately During Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Who Falls in True Love with an Affair Partner?