Q&A How Will I Ever Feel Safe with Someone Who Has No Control over Themselves? 8/28/2025
Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Need Time to Mourn the Loss of the Affair Partner? 8/28/2025
Q&A How Do I Heal from What Happened? 8/28/2025
Q&A Could You Provide Suggestion on How to Predict & Repair Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Engaging in Sex? 8/28/2025
Q&A What Makes Someone Vulnerable to a Previous Romantic Partner? 8/21/2025
Q&A How Do We Address and Heal from My Husband’s past Betrayal in Light of My Recent Infidelity? 8/06/2025
Q&A How Can I Prove to My Betrayed Spouse That I Finally ‘Get It’? 8/06/2025
Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Spouse Love Me and Have an Affair Partner? 8/06/2025
Q&A Am I Asking Too Much in Regards to Relapse Prevention from My Husband? 8/06/2025
Q&A Would You Ever Consider Hosting a ‘Trauma Therapy Specific’ Weekend Intensive? 8/06/2025
Q&A How Is Proper Closure with the Affair Partner Done in This Situation? 7/23/2025
Q&A How Do Others Cope with No Answers or Resolutions? 7/23/2025
Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward? 7/23/2025
Q&A How Do You Recommend We Handle Interactions with the Affair Partner? 7/23/2025
Q&A How Does He Not Have Deep Residual Feelings for the Affair Partner? 7/23/2025
Q&A How Do We Dismantle the Wall Hindering My Wayward Spouse from Expressing Sorrow, Remorse, and Empathy? 7/23/2025
Q&A I Want My Mate to Apologize. Is It Okay to Tell Him the Things He Has Done That Have Hurt Me? 7/21/2025
Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable? 7/21/2025
Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship? 7/09/2025
Q&A Can You Please Give Some Direction on the Various Courses and the Best Way to Go Through Them? 7/02/2025
Q&A What Would Put Me Back Into Integrity as a Betrayed Spouse? 7/02/2025
Q&A Why Is My Husband Blaming Me for His Affair? 7/02/2025
Q&A How Do I Talk About My Stupidity in a Redemptive Way, While I’m Still Struggling Through My Heart Change? 7/02/2025
Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair? 6/18/2025
Q&A How Can I Forgive the Affair Partner When She Is Still Impacting My Life So Negatively? 6/18/2025
Q&A How Do I Respond If I Feel the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Be with Me? 6/18/2025
Q&A How Can I Get Past This Feeling of Never Being Her Choice When She Had Freedom to Choose? 6/12/2025
Q&A Do I Take Action Against the Affair Partner or Just Letting It Go? 6/12/2025
Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner? 5/28/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing or Blending Two Different Attachment Styles? 5/28/2025
Q&A How Do I Heal from the Race of the Affair Partner Being a Trigger? 5/28/2025
Q&A Is There Any Hope That My Husband Will Change? 5/28/2025
Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner? 5/14/2025
Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Using Parental Control Apps to Create Safety and Rebuild Trust? 5/06/2025
Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself? 5/06/2025
Q&A Do You Have Experience with BPD Affairs? 5/06/2025
Q&A When Do I Throw in the Towel? 4/23/2025
Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner? 4/23/2025
Q&A How Do We Move past This Set-Back in Our Recovery? 4/16/2025
Q&A Why Do I Get Aroused Imagining the Sexual Acts My Wife Did with Her Affair Partner? 4/16/2025
Q&A How Long Will It Take for Him to Get Over His Feelings Towards Her and the Fantasy of the Affair? 4/09/2025
Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage? 4/09/2025
Q&A How Do We Restore the Relationship with Our Adult Children? 4/09/2025
Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Gather Evidence in Order to Move On from This? 4/09/2025
Q&A Is There a Way to Reconnect or Get Him to Engage Before Throwing 35 Years Away? 4/09/2025
Q&A When My Mate Accuses Me of Being a Narcissist Are They Really Recognizing Traits Within Themselves? 4/09/2025
Q&A When Will the Abusive Language and Name-Calling from the Betrayed Spouse Stop? 4/02/2025
Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Really Shut the Door on the Affair Partner? 4/02/2025
Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening? 4/02/2025
Q&A When Will My Efforts Be Enough for My Spouse? 4/02/2025
