Recovery Fundamentals
Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough.
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Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery
How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons
The Problem with Forgiveness
1180 Resources
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Video Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation? 11/24/2014
Video Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest? 11/24/2014
Audio Q&A How do you Respond to Righteous Indignation? 11/20/2014
Video Q&A When do You Stop Talking About the Affair? 11/17/2014
Video Q&A Should I Apologize to my Spouse's Family for my Affair? 11/14/2014
Video Q&A Is There Danger in Asking my Unfaithful Spouse About His Affair Partner? 11/14/2014
Audio Q&A Consumed With Finding Information 11/12/2014
Audio Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner? 11/12/2014
Audio Q&A Spouse Avoiding Issue and Anger Management 11/12/2014
Video Q&A Addiction, Meetings, & Lack of Commitment 11/05/2014
Audio Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Wants me to Forgive and Forget 11/04/2014
Audio Q&A Intrusive Thoughts Preventing Rest 11/04/2014
Audio Q&A Addiction and Limerance 11/04/2014
Audio Q&A Emotional Affair and Limerance 11/04/2014
Audio Q&A Hurt Spouse Contacting the Affair Partner 11/04/2014
Text Surviving Infidelity: Poor Recovery Decisions of Unfaithful Spouses - Part 2 10/23/2014
Text Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp 9/17/2014
Text The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014
Video Creating Healing Spaces 5/01/2014
Text How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll 11/06/2013
Video 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013
Text I Want My Life Back 9/18/2013
Video What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013
Text It Seems I've Missed the Mark 8/13/2013
Text Grief-Transforming Loss 8/01/2013
Text The Trap 7/10/2013
Text Rekindling Desire After Infidelity 6/26/2013
Text Achieving Real Change, part 4 1/01/2013
Text How to Change, Part Three 12/18/2012
Text Is Change Really Possible, Part Two 12/13/2012

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