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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 1260 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Am I Hurting Us More by Not Letting Him Live at Home? 6/16/2021 Q&A What Resources Can I Give My Family for Supporting Me through This Time and Setting Healthy Boundaries? 6/16/2021 Q&A What Is the Best Response for My Husband? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Help Him Understand That I Need to Know about All His Emotional Affairs? 6/16/2021 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Be Doing to Leave an Opening for a Different Path? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Create a Safe Boundary for Myself While Showing Him Grace and Not Reject His Desire to Open up to Me and Reconnect? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I as the Betrayed Quit Hitting the Wrong Side of His Ambivalence? 6/16/2021 Q&A Are There Any Tips on How to Handle Someone Who Is Not Displaying Remorse, Is Full Of Anger and Pain, And Deeply Depressed? 6/16/2021 Q&A Did He Only Quit Because He Got Caught? 6/16/2021 Q&A Are My Good Acts Just More Manipulation? 6/03/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle My Complicated Family Situation? 6/03/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse’s Defensiveness? 6/03/2021 Q&A Is There Correlation to Infidelity and Attachment Styles? 5/25/2021 Q&A Do We Try to Get Ahead of Public Backlash? 5/25/2021 Q&A How Do I Love Her through Her Controlling Issues While Still Maintaining My Sanity? 5/25/2021 Q&A Should I Receive a Disclosure Letter from My Spouses Work in Hope for Healing? 5/25/2021 Hope Rising Conference 2021 Announcement: Words of Wisdom from Keynote Speaker Shauna Shanks 5/19/2021 Q&A Is It Wrong to Expect My Husband to Stop Contact with an Affair Partner Who Is Close to the Family and My Best Friend? 5/12/2021 Q&A Is It Too Soon to Begin Having Sex Again? 4/29/2021 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about a Post Infidelity Contract? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Get Him to See My Perspective? 4/29/2021 Q&A Is This Typical or Is My Husband Emotionally Immature? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Should I Answer Him When He Says I Should Forgive Him like the Bible Says to Forgive? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Re-Engage with Family, Friends, And Normal Life? 4/29/2021 Q&A Can You Explain the Similarities and Differences between Confessing, Acknowledgement and Accountability? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Talk about Our Marriage? 4/29/2021 Q&A What Can I or Should I Do With the Thoughts in My Head? 4/13/2021 Q&A It Seems My Husband Is More Worried About His Self-Image Than Actually Healing, What Do I Do? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Else Can I Do, Other Than Be Honest and Give Her Space? 4/13/2021 Q&A Should We Try to Find New Therapist? 3/25/2021 Q&A How Do I Balance Guarding My Heart with Building Intimacy in EMS Online When My Mate Is Still Engaging His Affair Partner? 3/25/2021 A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021 Q&A What Would You Recommend for Someone Who Feels like Their Main Support Group Is Coming to a Close When the Process Is Just Beginning? 3/22/2021 Q&A How Do We Safely and Respectfully Navigate Reconciliation, and Re-Integration to the Home, While Separated? 3/22/2021 Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much Too Soon, How Long Does It Take to Start to See That Coming Back? 3/18/2021 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Help Him Work through His Struggles - Which in Turn Will Help Our Marriage? 3/18/2021 Q&A What Am I Supposed to Do as the Hurt Spouse Trying to Heal from My Husband’s Hurtful Behavior While Now Navigating My Past? 3/11/2021 Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence? 3/09/2021 Q&A Is Sharing Triggers with Our Partner Counter Productive? 3/09/2021 Q&A Is There a Video on the “Do's and Don'ts” for Helping Someone Who Is Suffering While Going through the Trauma of Infidelity? 3/04/2021 Q&A Should I Ask about All the Media and Locations They Shared? 3/04/2021 Q&A Could My Husband Be Done with Recovery? 3/04/2021 Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story? 2/23/2021 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed? 2/23/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling like My Husband Needs to Own up to the Affair to People in His Life? 2/11/2021 Q&A Am I Abnormal for Struggling with Healing? 1/28/2021 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Reclaiming Things Associated with the Affair? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Can I Remain Supportive and Loving While Also Protecting Myself? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Do I Know What Is Too Much Information? 1/28/2021 Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand the Three Stages of Love? 1/28/2021 Pages« first‹ previous…2345678910…next ›last »