Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Power of Small Groups Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How to Survive Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 1078 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do You Enforce Boundaries? 3/13/2019 Q&A Should I Set Boundaries with Friends during Recovery? 3/13/2019 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much? 3/13/2019 Q&A If My Spouse Relapses during EMS Online, Should We Start Over? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Set Safe Boundaries in Our Recovery? 3/04/2019 Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable with Accountability? 3/04/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set with the Opposite Sex? 2/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place of Safety and Intimacy with My Mate? 2/20/2019 Rodney and Angela Mentor Video 2/14/2019 Q&A What Steps Do You Take to Find the Right Accountability Partner? 2/13/2019 Q&A How Can I Get My Mate to Create Safety? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Come Back from a Relapse? 2/06/2019 Q&A Can I Every Truly Be Safe for My Spouse? 1/30/2019 Q&A Where Is God in All of This? 1/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Find Better Accountability and Create Safety? 1/30/2019 Q&A Is His Explanation Probable? 1/28/2019 Q&A Should We Set Boundaries with Masturbation in Marriage? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Apply Boundaries and Reconcile? 1/23/2019 Q&A Should My Wayward Spouse Find a New Career to Create Safety? 1/22/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set around Our Emotions? 1/22/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate a Second Chance? 1/16/2019 Q&A How Do We Manage Safe Boundaries with a Child from the Affair? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Anonymity Is a Requirement in 12 Step Programs? 1/09/2019 Q&A Is Mentoring Another Form of Pimping? 12/14/2018 Q&A Is ‘Rubber Necking’ or Blatant Attention to Other Flirtatious Women Part of Infidelity? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Make My Mate Feel Safe After All of This? 12/05/2018 Q&A Why Is My Betrayed Spouse Interrogating Me about Everyone of the Opposite Sex? 12/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome Emotional Abuse from My Mate? 11/28/2018 Q&A What Happens When the Wayward Refuses to Get Help? 11/28/2018 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses Full Disclosure? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Respond to Relapse? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate Not to Contact Her Affair Partner for Closure? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When We Are Apart? 11/21/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set? 11/01/2018 Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Safety in My Situation? 11/01/2018 Q&A Is This a Red Flag? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in This Situation? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should We Separate Due to the Lack of Safety? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should I Disclose More Information for the Sake of the Children? 11/01/2018 Q&A Is It Necessary to Wait until I No Longer Have Feelings for the AP to Reconnect with My Wife? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Can We Set Boundaries with Friends That Aided the Affair? 10/23/2018 Q&A Why Has My Mate Broken My Trust Again? 10/23/2018 Q&A Should We Continue with EMSO If My Mate Won't Break Contact With the Affair Partner? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is Charm Another Form of Pimping Tenderness? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Can We Safely Parent a Child from the Affair? 10/23/2018 Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Come Back If They Are Not Addressed? 10/17/2018 Q&A What Does 'Working on the Marriage' Look like for the Unfaithful? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Be Okay with My Mates Ex-Spouse Staying in Our Home When Family Comes to Visit? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Be Open to Reconciliation? 10/10/2018 Q&A How Can We Make Discovery Safe? 9/26/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…34567891011…next ›last »