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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A At What Point Do I Give Up?	8/23/2019
	Q&A Why Am I Still Hurting?	8/23/2019
	Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To?	8/23/2019
	Q&A How Does Sexual Imprinting in a Women during Her Teenage Years Impact Her Desire to Be Intimate in a Marriage Compared to with an Affair Partner?	8/23/2019
	Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work.	8/21/2019
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Thoughts and Questions?	8/20/2019
	Q&A What Is the Difference between Infatuation and Love?	8/20/2019
	Q&A How Can I Believe What My Husband Is Saying?	8/20/2019
	Q&A Is My Husband Really Repentant?	8/20/2019
	Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Overcoming the Sexual Part of the Affair?	8/20/2019
	Q&A How Can I Persuade My Husband That the Affair Partner Is More Than Just a Friend?	8/20/2019
	Q&A What Do You Suggest for My Husband and I?	8/20/2019
	Q&A Is My Husband's Argument Right?	8/20/2019
	Q&A Do You Agree with My Counselor?	8/20/2019
	Q&A What Is the Difference between Setting Boundaries and Judging?	8/20/2019
	Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Talking about the Affair?	8/20/2019
	Q&A Are My Doubts and Feelings Normal?	8/20/2019
	Q&A Should We Disclose the Affair and Resulting Triggers to Family Members?	8/20/2019
	Q&A What Should I Do?	8/20/2019
	Q&A Where Did the Weakness to Have an Affair Come From?	8/20/2019
	Q&A What Would You Recommend to Continue Our Healing Journey?	8/20/2019
	Q&A Would It Be a Waste for Us to Attend the EMS Weekend?	8/20/2019
	Q&A Am I Rushing My Healing Process?	8/20/2019
	Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Heartbroken on the D-Day Anniversary?	8/20/2019
	Q&A I Feel Stuck in the Shame of What I've Done. How Can You Help?	8/14/2019
	Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Accept My Husband's Comfort?	8/14/2019
	Q&A Is It Healthy for the Betrayed to Know Intimate Details about the Affair Partner?	8/14/2019
	Q&A How Can We Overcome the Pain of Anniversary Dates?	8/14/2019
	Q&A How Can We Safely Break off the Affair with a Colleague?	8/14/2019
	Q&A How Do I Deal with a Charismatic, Controlling, Narcissistic Man?	8/14/2019
	Q&A What Steps Do You Recommend in Preparation for EMS Weekend?	8/14/2019
	Q&A When Is the Right Time to Talk about Trust?	8/14/2019
	Q&A What Do You Recommend for Changing My Thought Pattern around Intrusive Thoughts?	8/14/2019
	Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Professional Environments?	8/14/2019
	Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Yellow Light Behaviors?	8/14/2019
	Q&A Why Can't We Talk about the Affair Partner with out the Wayward Spouse Shutting Down?	8/14/2019
	Q&A Should the Wayward Wife Be Rewarded by Taking My Choice Away from Me Many Years Ago?	8/14/2019
	Q&A How Can I Show My Spouse That I'm on the Right Path to Recovery?	8/14/2019
	Q&A How Do We Recover When the Family Dynamic Has Been Dramatically Affected?	8/14/2019
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Restoration during Separation?	8/14/2019
	Trauma and Infidelity	8/07/2019
	Q&A How Do You Know If You’re Acting in Love and Not in an Accusatory Way?	8/06/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Not Disclose Fully, yet Find Themselves Fully Recommitted after Discovery?	8/06/2019
	Q&A How Do I Learn to Enjoy Anything in My Life?	8/06/2019
	Q&A Which Path Should I Take?	8/06/2019
	Q&A How Do We Handle Discovery When the Affair Happened So Long Ago?	8/06/2019
	Q&A How Do I Process All This in a Healthy Way?	8/06/2019
	Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Special Again?	8/06/2019
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Confronting His Affair Partner?	8/06/2019
	Q&A What Exactly Does Repair Work Look Like?	8/06/2019