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Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 5036 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is Harboring Hope a Step Backwards for Me and My Marriage? 8/10/2017 Q&A How Would You Describe the Difference between Regret and Remorse? 8/10/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle the Challenges of Sexual Intimacy after D-Day? 8/10/2017 Q&A How Long Should I Expect Her to Show No Emotions towards Me and Our Marriage? 8/10/2017 Q&A Are We Deluded about His Porn and Alcohol Use? 8/10/2017 Q&A Should I Respond to the Affair Partner's Letter to Me? 8/10/2017 Q&A Can You Elaborate on What You Mean by the Unfaithful Partner Often Affairs Down? 8/10/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Get over the Affair Even Though My Husband Is Doing All the Work to Rebuild? 8/10/2017 Q&A What Does Acceptance Look Like and How Do I Reach It? 8/02/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Let Go? 8/02/2017 Q&A Is This Co-Dependency? 8/02/2017 Q&A What Resources Do You Suggest for Emotional Trauma? 8/02/2017 Q&A How Do We Break through Poor Communication Habits? 8/02/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Move Forward? 8/02/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Emotions towards the Affair Partner? 8/02/2017 Q&A Can We Recover from This? 8/02/2017 Q&A What Does Healing Look Like for a Betrayed Husband? 8/02/2017 Q&A When Do We Stop Looking for Details and Move Forward? 8/02/2017 Q&A How Do I Reconcile These Opposing Views? 8/02/2017 Q&A Could Someone Really Think This? 8/02/2017 Q&A How Can I Get Answers from My Mate? 8/02/2017 Q&A Why Did My Mate Act Differently with the Affair Partner? 8/02/2017 Laverne and Lischia's Mentor Video 8/01/2017 Q&A Can He Be Safe for Me If He Continues to Use Porn? 7/26/2017 Q&A Am I Pushing Her Away by Wanting Her Too Much? 7/26/2017 Q&A What Does My Mate Need to Feel Safe? 7/26/2017 Q&A Would It Be worth Shifting the Format of EMS Weekend? 7/26/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 7/26/2017 Q&A Did My Choices Contribute to the Affair? 7/26/2017 Q&A Is It Possible to Love Your Spouse and Have a Long Term Affair? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Wife’s Anger? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Manage My Triggers? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Stop Re-Traumatizing Myself? 7/26/2017 Q&A When Will My Husband Visualize Himself with Me Instead of Seeing Me with the AP 7/26/2017 Q&A What If I Didn't Affair Down? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Partner with Their Flooding? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do We Cope with Differing Marriage Histories? 7/19/2017 Q&A Will EMS Online Help Him Overcome His Ambivalence? 7/19/2017 Q&A How Do We Move beyond 'Pretend Normal'? 7/19/2017 Q&A Should There Be Closure with the Affair Partner? 7/19/2017 Q&A What Do You Mean by 'My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me'? 7/19/2017 Q&A With Multiple Discoveries over 2 Years, How Do I Know She's Told Me Everything? 7/19/2017 Q&A What Sort of Outcomes Do You See in Situations with Anger Like Ours? 7/19/2017 Q&A Is His Affair Too Big for Us to Overcome? 7/19/2017 Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story 7/19/2017 Kenneth and Amanda's Mentor Video 7/18/2017 Q&A Are My Requests Unreasonable? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Maintain My Stand to Not Tolerate His Behavior While Not Ruining a Co-Parenting Relationship? 7/12/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…585960616263646566…next ›last »