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Video Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There? 6/29/2023
Text Recovering From Infidelity Pain: Are They Lying About ‘Why’? 6/28/2023
Text Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?' 6/21/2023
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise? 6/16/2023
Video Q&A How Can I Continue to Be Empathetic to Her If in Spite of All I Do, It Is Still Not Enough? 6/16/2023
Video Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work? 6/16/2023
Video Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives? 6/16/2023
Video Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty? 6/16/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family? 6/16/2023
Video Q&A How Did ADHD and Other Factors Like Depression and Anxiety Contribute to My Affairs? 6/16/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Move past Something I Love Being Shared with the Affair Partner? 6/16/2023
Video Q&A Can You Elaborate More on Type Four Affairs? 6/16/2023
Text Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know? 6/14/2023
Text Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 6/07/2023
Text Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 5/31/2023
Text How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023
Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate? 5/19/2023
Text Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/17/2023
Text What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 5/10/2023
Text When to Save a Marriage After Infidelity 5/03/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend? 5/02/2023
Video Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do? 5/02/2023
Video Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did? 5/02/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Get past the Shame and Hurt? 5/02/2023
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Spouse Is Making Me Choose between Her and My Faith? 5/02/2023
Video Q&A How Does One Find a Reputable and Affordable Polygraph Test Provider? 5/02/2023
Video Q&A Is My Mate’s Inability to Experience Emotions Due to Deep Trauma or Something More Problematic? 5/02/2023
Text Your Brain on Porn and Understanding the Sex Addict 4/26/2023
Video Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner? 4/20/2023
Video Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A What If the Only Way I Can Heal Is without Horizontal Forgiveness? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Workplace Triggers in Recovery? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A Do You Think My Spouse Is Being Honest about Why They Stayed in the Affair for So Long? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way for Us to Utilize EMS Online since We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A What Type of Affair Is This? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A How Can Someone Who Has Become Such an Accomplished Liar Prove to the Betrayed Spouse That They Can Be Trusted? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed? 4/12/2023
Text Why People Cheat: Were They Predisposed to Cheat (Part 2) 4/12/2023
Text Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 4/05/2023
Text Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 3/29/2023
Text Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 3/22/2023
Video Q&A Is It Possible for the Individual to Find Healing and Purpose Even If the Marriage Doesn’t Survive? 3/17/2023

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