For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Power of Small Groups The Problem with Forgiveness 1299 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A My Wife Says She Didn’t Mean to Hurt Me. How Do I Respond to This? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Recover from the Affair If They Don't Really Grieve the Loss of the Relationship? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Can These Two Programs Be Helpful in Such a Mess of a Situation? 6/19/2020 Q&A If My Spouse Is Going through the Hope for Healing Course, Should I Expect to See His Emotions Roller Coaster like Mine? 6/19/2020 Q&A Do I Quit Expressing My Hurt, Asking Questions, and Pray for Peace in Our Remaining Years? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Prevent Flashbacks of Photos I Have Seen? 6/19/2020 Q&A Did My Husband Prefer His Affair Partner over Me? 6/18/2020 Q&A Is This Healthy or Are My Concerns Valid? 6/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand It’s Not about Him and His Pain? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Cherish the Positive Family Moments That Happened during the Affair? 6/03/2020 Q&A Why Has My Husband Re-written Our Marital History? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Accept That His Actions Were Willful and Done without Any Regard of My Feelings? 6/03/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Ex-husband's Motive? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Would Enabling the Affair Look Like? 6/03/2020 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Husband Having a Difficult Time with 'Why'? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Start a New Relationship without Fear That This Will Happen Again? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Heal When He Still Has to Have Contact with Her Because of Her Job? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Now Distinguish between Truth and Deception? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do You Heal from This Level of Betrayal? 6/03/2020 Q&A Does the Length of the Affair Have Implications for Our Recovery? 6/03/2020 Q&A Do I Stop Encouraging My Mate to Participate in Hope for Healing and Quit Communicating with Him? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is My Request for Confrontation Reasonable? 5/28/2020 Q&A What If You Feel the Wayward Spouse Is Not Telling the Whole Truth during the Telling of Their Story? 5/07/2020 Q&A Where Is the Empathy for Me? 4/30/2020 Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Comfortable Being in a Place with My Husband without Searching for Women Whom I Know Fit His Sexual Criteria? 4/28/2020 Q&A Will This Ever Get Better and How Can I Help Myself to Recover This Part of My Marriage? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Make the Hard Decision to Stay or Move on after All These Years? 4/28/2020 Q&A Why Am I Having an Emotional Reaction When My Spouse Shows Interest in Things Besides Recovery? 4/28/2020 Q&A Is It Time for Me to Find My Own Counselor and Begin to Exit This Relationship? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Work to Create an Environment Where My Wayward Spouse Feels Safe? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Maintain Recovery During Times of Crisis? 4/28/2020 Q&A Is It Really Possible for a Man to Fall Back in Love with His Wife If He Was in Love with His Affair Partner? 4/28/2020 Q&A Can I Trust This as Real Change or Just Further Manipulation? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand My Concerns? 4/28/2020 Q&A Will We Ever Be Able to Restore Trust in Our Marriage? 4/28/2020 Q&A Should We Continue EMS Online If My Spouse Continues to Blame Me for the Affair? 4/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Know Limerance Isn’t What My Husband Feels for Me? 4/09/2020 Q&A Why Do Wayward Spouses Want to Stay in the Marriage? 4/09/2020 Q&A What Was My Husband Telling Himself When He Told Me All These Lies? 4/09/2020 Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery? 4/02/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Reframe My Thinking? 3/19/2020 Q&A Is My Husband Normal, Sick, or Was He Temporarily Insane? 3/19/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Support My Mate in Breaking Contact with the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Being in the Friend Zone with My Wife? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Long Does It Take for the Wayward Spouse to See Clearly? 3/16/2020 Q&A Can I Get My Motivation Back? 3/16/2020 Q&A Is There Any Way to Help My Wayward Spouse? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear around My Ex-Wife's Possible Relationship? 3/16/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…91011121314151617…next ›last »
