Rebuilding Trust
In the short run, transparency can take the place of trust until trust is reestablished. Learn the components of trust, how to function in its absence, and what it takes to reconnect.
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How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons
Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain
How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity
31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1
Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair
350 Resources
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Video Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again? 1/31/2018
Video Q&A How Do We Start over without Reviewing the Past? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A If My Mate has Lied about the past, Will They Lie about the Present and Future? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'? 1/10/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Know If the Changes Are Genuine? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much in Regards to Safety in Recovery? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner? 12/06/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic? 12/06/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions? 11/10/2017
Video Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Again? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A Why Can’t I Remember When My Affair Started? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A Are the Details of Relationships Prior to Marriage worth Sharing? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Convey the Importance of Remorse and Grief from My Mate? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A What Can I Do If My Wife Has Totally Lost Trust in Me? 10/25/2017
Text Do You Struggle with Forgiveness? 10/17/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This? 10/10/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Discuss the Affair with My Mate? 10/05/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Transparency in Recovery? 10/05/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Overcome Fear of Relapse? 10/05/2017
Video Q&A Is My Mates Change of Heart Genuine? 10/05/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Handle a Secure Workplace? 9/27/2017
Video Q&A How Far Back Should We Go? 9/27/2017
Video Q&A Why Doesn't He 'Get It'? 9/06/2017
Video Q&A Is This Normal and How Do We Regain Interest and Momentum Again? 9/06/2017
Video Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed to Feel Indifferent? 8/18/2017
Video Q&A Should We Be Able to Discuss His Current Activities without a Fight? 8/16/2017
Video Q&A Should My Husband Be Transparent about His Relationships? 8/16/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Take a Lie Detector Test? 8/16/2017
Video Q&A Can You Suggest Some Exercises to Help with Honesty after Betrayal? 8/11/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with Polygraph Results Such as This? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A Am I Pushing Her Away by Wanting Her Too Much? 7/26/2017
Video Q&A With Multiple Discoveries over 2 Years, How Do I Know She's Told Me Everything? 7/19/2017
Video Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Should I Continue to Verify My Spouse's Honesty? 5/26/2017
Video Q&A How Will I Know If He Truly Is Happy? 5/26/2017
Video Q&A Is It Normal for the Wayward Spouse to Admit Things at D-Day and Then Retract Them? 5/17/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward If I Don't Remember 100% of the Affair Details? 5/17/2017
Video Q&A Is It Necessary to Confess My One Night Stand to My Unfaithful Spouse? 5/10/2017
Video Q&A Is It Ok to Withdraw My Commitment to Being Completely Emotionally Honest? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A Is There a Point in Staying Married since My Husband Is Visiting His Affair Partner and Their Child? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Work towards Healing If I Don't Feel We Are at Ground Zero? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A What's Your Advice for Me Now That My Husband Is Working with His Affair Partner Again? 5/03/2017

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