Recovery Fundamentals Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough. Must Reads more less Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How to Survive Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 1184 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Not Feel Like Plan B? 6/14/2016 Q&A Should the Unfaithful's Spouse's Story Make Sense? 6/14/2016 Q&A Is Counseling Necessary? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Can I Love Him Again? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Can I Communicate His Lack of Consistency? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Do You Begin Recovery? 6/06/2016 Q&A How do I Convince My Mate That I'm Telling the Truth? 6/06/2016 Q&A How do We Handle the First Weeks After Discovery? 6/06/2016 Q&A Is Waiting for Remorse a Fool's Errand? 6/03/2016 Q&A In What Ways Can I Transform the Pain? 6/03/2016 Q&A What Direction Should I Take? 6/03/2016 Q&A Should I Expose Them? 6/03/2016 Q&A Why Doesn't He Talk About Previous Relationships? 6/03/2016 Michael & Melinda's Mentor Video 6/01/2016 Q&A Why Should the Betrayed Stay? 5/26/2016 Q&A Am I Avoiding the Pain? 5/26/2016 Q&A What Can I Do About My Friends? 5/26/2016 Q&A Can an Addict Love Unconditionally? 5/26/2016 Q&A Thought Stopping vs. Head in the Sand. Help! 5/10/2016 Q&A How Can I Feel Her Love When She Does This? 5/10/2016 Q&A How Can We Overcome Our Tendency to Withdraw? 5/10/2016 Is My Mate Safe? 5/10/2016 Q&A Will This Method of Disclosure Cause me More Harm? 5/03/2016 Q&A How Can I Get My Spouse to Show Initiative? 5/03/2016 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Betrayed Men? 5/03/2016 Q&A What do you Suggest for Counseling and EMS Online? 5/03/2016 Q&A (HH) Is There Private Mentoring at AR? 4/28/2016 Q&A What Else Can We do For Support? 4/26/2016 Q&A Can You Help With the Unfaithful's Lack of Empathy? 4/13/2016 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 4/13/2016 Q&A (HH) Any Advice for Our Disclosure Challenges? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Should I 'Know' Who She is? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) How do You Know if Your Unfaithful Spouse is Taking Responsibility or Still Lying? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Can You Recommend a Conflict Resolution Plan for Us? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Leslie, Can You Explain? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) When Should We Start Couples Counseling? 3/24/2016 Q&A How Do I Overcome Not Putting My Wife First? 3/21/2016 Q&A How Can We Restore Emotional Equality? 3/21/2016 Q&A How Can They Say They Won't do it Again if They Don't Even Know the Why? 3/15/2016 Q&A What Are Your Suggestions for a Recovering Sex and Love Addict? 3/15/2016 Q&A What Recovery Work Should the Unfaithful Do? 3/08/2016 Q&A Am I Reaping What I Sowed Many Years Ago? 3/01/2016 Q&A What is the Right Thing to do in this Relationship? 3/01/2016 Q&A How Can I Help the Unfaithful With Their Shame? 2/26/2016 The Story that Started Affair Recovery 2/24/2016 A Protocol for Reminders 2/17/2016 Q&A Are We in False Recovery? 2/16/2016 Q&A To Share or Not to Share Pet Peeves? 2/09/2016 Surviving Infidelity: How Do You Handle The Disclosure Process? 2/09/2016 Q&A What is Your Opinion of Detachment in Recovery? 2/02/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…161718192021222324next ›last »